Using a PA and Custom Device for Long-term Male Chastity

My precious wife and I have enjoyed my chastity since 2004. Over the last four months, she has gotten very serious about it and we have a contract for the first time. She allows me out only four times per year, today being one of those times for her birthday. But today, the deal was I would not be allowed an orgasm. I would be restrained and there would be enjoyment, but no "O". After one hour, I was to be back in my cage. Now, the next unlock is in 106 days. The next one after that is in 125 days, then 46 days.

I say all of that to say if a person is wanting to be truly locked up for his Wife, Mistress, etc., for a long-term, I think that the only way to really do that is to have a device that uses a PA piercing. Those are typically custom devices and are expensive. Long-term is relative; for one couple long-term may be 30 days, for others it is months or years (yikes!!).

So, here's what I would do if you do not have a PA and you are serious about long-term male chastity. First, get a PA piercing. Normally they start you off with either a 12- or 10-gauge, which is really small diameter wire. Then after 30 days of healing, begin to hang a small padlock on the PA ring while you wear boxers, to let gravity slowly open the piercing hole. Then purchase the next size larger captive bead ring and hang one or two locks on it and keep going until you get to a 6- or 4-gauge. That will take you maybe 4-6 months.

In the meantime, begin setting aside some money weekly to purchase a stainless custom device that will secure you for the long-term. So if it takes you four months to get to a 6-gauge, set aside about $30/week for a $450.00 chastity device like The Contender (beginning price is $275, but when you add the PA option for $125 and a couple of other options, it can get to the mid-$400 range, but it is well worth the price!!). Then contact someone like Mark at Male Chastity Now and he will have you a custom device in about 2-week turn around.

I have The Contender that he made for me. 100% comfortable and totally secure. There is absolutely no way possible of getting out of it unless I cut flesh or use a hacksaw to cut the steel. I can get out of any plastic device with a little work. My Wife is very pleased to have me locked up for her, it is what she and I both want, so we invested in a custom-made stainless device from Male Chastity Now.

There are many reputable companies that make great custom devices for a PA or frenum piercing. Those kinds of devices are the only way to ensure no escape and no masturbation during periods of lockup.