Sorry for the long post.. Its been a while since posting an update on our journey in chastity and FLR. This year has been something to say the least, and it definitely put us in a funk. We took a mutual break this summer with chastity and FLR. I re-initiated chastity the beginning of September and bought myself a new smaller metal cage. My Wife/KH was surprised and accepted it and we playfully started up our FLR. This we talk a bit about our roles and we decided that i am to refer to her as my Queen going forward. I was delighted. We marked the coronation of the Queen with Her orgasming while i watched and caressed Her body. Afterwards my Queen granted me 5 minutes with Her vibrator to try and have an orgasm while caged. Sadly, i was unsuccessful. Afterwards we talked some more and She is allowing me to buy a wand vibrator for supervised milking only and i will remaind caged until Oct 31. She will decide on that day if I get a trick or a treat. It was unclear if i will be allowed to be milked in the meantime. i am happy we are back at it, being uncaged felt strange. My Queen seems to be happy with restarting again. And we look forward to growing ( figuratively of course) into the lifestyle. Like many of you have said to others new to this lifestyle, patience and taking it slow can be most beneficial. We started in January of this year and have our sights on the long term. 9+ months in and i still consider us novices, everyday is a learning experience. Thanks for reading.
Thank you for the update, it certainly wasn't too long. It seems many of us here started this year and that presented many challenges. Good luck going forward.
Thanks everyone and am grateful to those who have given me helpful advice over the months here at CM. This was something i always wanted in our relationship but She was very reluctant to do. Pushing my Queen into it wasnt going to help matters. We are very happy with how our FLR is progressing. Looking forward to what lays ahead.
Interesting to start / stop and re-start and just shows that it really is a long term journey and that everyone is different, hope you enjoy the re-boot
This sort of our MO. We just restarted after a few months off. This time feels different somehow. My guess is that it’s sort of like quitting smoking... most people start and stop several times.