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    So, recently I've been trying to go without orgasm for an entire month and my body doesn't seem to want to allow it. The past 2 months or so, I've been getting spontaneous orgasms in the 2 to 3 week range and I've been resetting the clock every time, only to never make it in the end. :(

    So, I think what I'm going to do is not count spontaneous/caged orgasms as release, because they give me no pleasure and make my glands sore for a couple days along with a week-long testosterone crash (that's punishment enough for me) and just keep the clock going with my "Doubles or Quits" dice game. When I finally roll doubles, then I will give myself a full uncaged orgasm, but only then and not sooner.

    Hopefully this new approach will make my chastity games more fun and less disappointing, thus further motivating me. :+1:
     
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    Good luck :) and best wishes for your endeavours
     
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    Thanks!

    I damn near had a caged orgasm shortly after posting that, but I managed to fight it off. Phew! :+1:
     
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    I mean if you're not actively trying to get off its beyond your control. I wouldn't count it in that case.
     
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    Exactly. I'd be spending my spare time either watching some porn (unless I have something to better to do) or I'd be in a video game making a hot sexy outfit for a female character and next thing I know, I'm about to burst and my hands are on the keyboard and not on my cage. I feel punishing myself for that by restarting the clock is only making matters worse for me.
     
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    At some point your body is going to what what it's going to do. Especially if you're not being milked somewhat regularly. I wouldn't punish myself for it. My 17 day streak got ruined yesterday, she wanted morning sex. Not that I'm complaining, I was starting to crawl the walls.
     
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    Why are you combining watching porn with trying not to masturbate? To me that sounds like a less than ideal mix.
    Unless it’s a sort of solo edging, done for the kick of it - in which case, go for it!
     
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    You just answered your own question… Look at my username and take a second to think about it. :p
     
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    Yeah ok, I wasn’t sure if that was PornAddict and proud, or “woe is me I’m struggling with addiction”. Cheers!
     
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    All good, man. :cool:

    Since I’ve been ALOT hornier than usual these past couple days, I’m gonna wear my cage to work to avoid the temptation of getting release in the mens room. :+1:

    It might weigh me down a bit, but it’s a risk I’m willing to take.
     
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    Is it made of lead or something??? I wear mine 247/365 and don’t notice it.
     
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    Well, my problem is I tend to sweat alot so if I wear it more than a couple days without taking it off then things get a little nasty down there (even with regular showerings)… A couple weeks ago, I got a skin condition after wearing it for 5 days straight. I ordered another stainless steel cage in hope of it being a little more “forgiving” to my skin. Until then, I have to be careful.
     
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    I think the spontaneous ejaculations will stop when you break your porn addiction. I used to look at a little to much tumblr captions to much. Now reading these is the closest thing I look at to porn. When I was used to cumming 5 to 10 times a week, I would have that happen around day 10. It was weird masturbating to or about not being able to do just that. One day I stopped. I think my relationship improved. Definitely find open bar style stainless that is your length or under and tight. Use the non scented dial like you use after a tattoo to clean your cage. Still needs taken off and cleaned weekly. I would probably make it a month without it happening. I broke my porn addiction over the last few years. Given your screen name, that is the issue
     
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    I totally see your point... I've been trying to gradually watch less because if I stop all at once, then I'll just relapse and it'll be worse than before. But I'm slowly making progress there. :+1:
     
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    You should possibly try a weekly milking, I find it quite odd it doesn't really relieve hornyness as such but it seems to relieve some sort of pressure, I cant really explain it. Good luck!
     
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    When we got much more serious with lockups, my body would purge semen somewhere around 11-14 days. Id get a feeling like I needed to pee but a little different feeling, and I’d pee and there would be a bunch of semen. But over this last year, it hardly happens any more, I’ll occasionally need a pad from some leaking but the big purge hasn’t happened in a long time now. Obviously everyone is different but my body has become used to this
     
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    The body occasionally gets rid of waste products. It isn't exactly semen. it's thicker than that. There's nothing you can do about it.
     
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    I haven't had a spontaneous orgasm or ejaculation. And it's been decades since I've had a wet dream. But the other day, I just happened to notice some semen in my pee. I suspect it's been happening all along and I didn't realize it.
     
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    It's possible... I read up on some other threads that guys who leak tend not to have wet dreams. That's encouraging to me, because I leak all the time (I did pretty much all day yesterday, after an extreme urge the previous day) and I really don't want to have to change/replace my bedding because of wet dreams.
     
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    The word “bedding” always makes me think of hamsters. Now I’m gonna picture you trying to distract from temptation by running in a wheel….
     
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    You're funny! :rolleyes:
     
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    Good, cos I was going for funny rather than rude!
     
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    That's funny! What do you call "bedding" in the UK?

    When you consider how small and insignificant we are in a world so large & populous, I feel more like hamsters than humans!
    When my wife teases me so thoroughly like she did this morning, there is tons of pre-ejaculate, some of which escapes the cage and dampens the "bedding". Fortunately, much remains contained otherwise she'd put a stop to that too. The good thing is she realized again this weekend that her tormenting of me makes her experience that much more arousing and intense, and much easier for her to orgasm. But I'm going to be looking a little more closely to see if I'm releasing semen also when I urinate. All of that intense teasing must have produced a lot of semen and if I understand the plumbing down there and how it works, it probably gets pulled into the bladder for later release when there has been no ejaculation.
     
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    "Bedding" funnily enough!
     
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