Does anyone have any advice on how to slowly progress to a TPE? Obviously we practice orgasm control already. I’m looking for ideas that hand over power on a daily basis, eg choice of clothing, on a progressive scale. Stage by stage. Ultimately concluding with financial control. Although we are not there yet.
If you both agree to it just slowly add more and more aspects. Clothing in general would not be something good though. In day to day life she does not want to put out you clothes for sure. But how about giving her the last word about your timetable ? Not planning every minute for you, but you accepting everything she plans... Some small aspect that can become very interesting though.
As I have said before, communication is paramount! Talk things throgh, openly discuss with your other what you want and are hoping for, ask her what she is wanting from it to, but don’t be pushy! Let it just flow and it will.