Ok, life goes on. I decided to share my chastity lifestyle with my GF, either she love it or hate it. I'm kinda in over my head now....and I'm not sure if I love it or hate it! We're always looking for new ideas on how long I'm locked up, days, weeks whatever, without either of us actually setting the time. Our latest is the chastity Game on Tumblr. when you enter the site and go to the bottom, and hit RANDOM, a picture of a beautiful young lady appears and tells us how long I remain locked up. If she doesn't feel it's long enough, she just doubles it. I only complained about her making up her own rules, but she just laughed, reminded me SHE has the keys and added two weeks to the time. She also introduced me to a very special little vibrator she found at Walmart. This cute little 4 legged toy is awesome! She rubber bands this little hummer against my cage for 30 minutes every day. It's terribly arousing, anything after that I start to get numb. I've never been addicted to vibrators but this thing keeps me wiggling and fighting not to cum. I want to so bad, I could so easily, but I fight it because if I do, with the cage on, my next to "free" days will be on my birthday (in July), and Christmas. Like I said, I opened this door to my little secret, and she walked in, liked what she saw and took over, kinda like I wanted her to.
When we first began our poly triad with my wife's best friend, they were shy to do some of the more advanced things together. So being a programmer at the time I wrote a program that allowed you to enter the names and gender of each person and then each time you pressed a key, a sexual act appeared that you had to complete. Since I wrote all the sexual acts, the girls did all the stuff you see in porn. It gave us many nights of kinky sex and made the girls comfortable with each other. Games are good in the beginning. We used the spinning wheel game that you can find if you search for it. It allows you to set it up with as you wish. You can have mostly 2 week denial periods and through in one or two longer ones. You can have 10 slots oor 25. You really have full control over the wheel according to your limits. Go here https://tinyurl.com/mdrzcd6 The games are good because it takes the guilt away from your KH for denying you. Eventually though, she will realize that there is no exchange of power. The game is in control, not her. At that time you are ready to move on and let your KH decide how long to deny you an orgasm. Check out the Wheel of Chastity link above. It is the only game I came across that lets you customize it exactly the way you want it. You can adjust the odds of each orgasm denial period appearing and even put tasks on some slots instead of orgasm denial.