There needs to be Chastity clubs like swinger clubs but all men are locked.

We had a few. Mistress Michelle who was one of the original moderates here held them in Virginia for a few years. One year the founder of the site Mistress Watchful even came from the UK to attend.

I only got to go one year. It was held at a big rental lake house. I think it was about a dozen folks. All Fem Dommes and male subs locked up.

We had tons of food that the subs made and served, lots of play and even several demos.

it was an amazing time. Sadly she stopped holding them as it was a huge event and it was expensive and it cost her money.

So they happen, they’re just not common as it takes a special person and group to make it a success.

 

Id be totally in if it happened in new england. Remember reading that mm sends alot of cages to new england. Who else is in new england?

 

I think I'd be willing to travel for an event like that. Maybe not all the way to UK, but certainly in most of U.S. Help defray costs and serve gladly.

 

I would love to attend such an event in the UK! CFNM and unlocked studs sounds amazing.

 

I would be certainly interest in this type of event and live in the Seattle area. I hope you might let me know if this ever happens

 

Was answering on the fly!

What I imagine is something very lush and decadent with perhaps a burlesque catering to the female gaze.

 

The leader of Diadem Events was trying to judge interest in a thread in the Chastity Seattle group on FetLife. I don’t know how many positive responses she needs to consider an event, but you might want to chime in there and follow that thread.

 

Yeah, I get it, no worries. I could definitely see the attraction of an event focused on male chastity, without the trappings of a heavy play BDSM dungeon. I would envision the event as including optional CFNM, collar/leash, F/m servant activities, light/minimalist bondage, the sort of thing that shows the women's power and the man's subservience without going nuclear. A quasi-private back room could be provided for participants interested in heavier play.

 

I googled that in every way I could imagine, and found nothing relevant. Do you have a link?

 

As I mentioned earlier, the conversation is happening on the Chastity Seattle group on FetLife. If you’re not on FetLife, you won’t see the thread.

 

I'm on FetLife, and I don't see any such discussion in that group.

 

It's the top thread: https://fetlife.com/groups/89463/posts/14200714

The person who runs Diadem Events joined in, trying to figure out the structure of the proposed gathering.

 

Idea for names? Singles and not for mingle lol such a corny name! Great idea; I’ll sign the line.

 

Thanks. I had read that discussion and didn't recognize it from your description. No mention of Diadem Events, just a handful of men in chastity talking about getting a meeting together, and one comment from a person listed as "NB" – not a Diadem Events representative, according to the profile.

 

That's not the person I was referring to. Like I said, they're looking into it.

 

The closest things I've seen to these have been the ClubFEM International parties. If there's not a chapter in your local area, you might be the change you want to see in the world. (Under appropriate supervision, of course)

 

Rather than a specific club or C-centered kink event, it'd be nice to maybe just schedule a time when like-minded people all show up at the same vanilla venue. Maybe post-Covid or maybe even more interesting because it is Phase 1.5 or Phase 2 and the bars/restaurants have limited capacity -- but someone could just pick a day and time window where like-minded people casually show up in the same place (maybe folks do, maybe they don't -- you'll only know if you see open keyholders displaying their keys). All kinds of kinks/lifestyles (maybe I'm more vanilla, but I think of it more as a lifestyle) are covered in the media/movies/TV but not this too much -- so even if folks don't choose to strike up a conversation, it'd be nice to be in the same room and exchange knowing glances with other like-minded people on dates.

 

So . . . as I think about it . . . next to what WAS known as Key Arena, there is a great spot for outdoor hanging out, casually at the International Fountain. It seemed appropriate in a few ways: the former name of the arena and the fountain looks a bit like something from Steelwerks. This Saturday looks like it'll be a nice day to visit the park and fountain.

 

Sounds fun ^_^
Would attend this if i was not closet domina ^_^

 

I guess that's my point: This is a sorta closet-friendly idea where only those in the know actually know that there may be others nearby who are like-minded.

 

We are located in New England, the Western part of Massachusetts to be a bit more specific. While my Loving KeyHolder Wife is currently out, I'm pretty sure she would be interested in attending such an event.

 

If the group is big enough, you can play a fun game.

First the keyholders put their key in a box.
Then they pick a random key out of the box.

Now the men do not know who has the key to their lock.

Next the men each select a keyholder of their liking. This can be their original keyholder, but it can be any other woman.
If a woman is selected by more than one men, she picks one and the men chose another (free) woman.

Now each keyholder is paired with a man. They can now check if the key fits. If it fits, they decide what to do with it (they can even decide to keep it locked).

In the end, used males should be cleaned and recaged and all men and keys need to be returned to their original keyholders.