I currently have a birdcage which is a very long device for me which means flaccid I have almost an inch room. That results that I am getting an half full erection while arroused which feels kind of nice and frustrating to the same time since I can’t get full effected and the device pushing still my member in the downward direction without any pain. I was reading a lot reagarding sizing of chastity devices and a lot of them say it should be about one inch smaller than the flaccid member. Now my question: What gives you the result of more horniness/ frustration/ pleasure? Thinking about to get a smaller device in order to keep me maximum frustrated and horny to the same time for my goodness to get her even more control.
I switched to the Bon4 micro. I never would have thought I could have gotten into it, but I like it, and so does she.
Proper sizing has more to do with comfort than frustration or horniness, especially for long term wear. The device itself doesn't frustrate, it's the inability to relieve yourself.