I'm trying to come up with a list of rules for October and ask Mrs Jah to edit and approve them. What are your rules and or contracts in Vanilla chastity?
At her suggestion, we have started a communication notebook, with a lock, and I am to write stuff in there, as opposed to to texting which she worries the kids might see. I want to taylor something specific to us. If both parties know where they stand on things it makes things easier.
I guess that I suggest the golden rule: what she says is law. Do you currently have rules? If so, what are they lacking?