Hello all, Just introducing myself. I am a 41 year old woman, have been married to my husband for nearly 11 years. We were involved in chastity play for awhile, but some difficult experiences and an unfortunate cuckolding experiment which nearly cost our relationship meant that we took quite a break from it. I don't think I was that enthused about it then and that may have lead to the problems as my heart wasn't really in it and I wasn't up front about it. However, we have started playing again, and this time I am much more excited by it. My husband's periods of confinement are becoming longer and longer this time. He has just completed a 3 week stint, and after a weekend release is now facing at least a month of orgasm denial - probably longer. The shift in my thinking has been dramatic - I am loving the attention, the affection, his emotional maturity, and his devotion to my pleasure. And I can see that he is so excited about focusing on my pleasure. I can't believe that he is begging to massage me every night. That is what exemplifies why I have become so happy with our refound commitment to male chastity play. We have also agreed that his release is up to me - and I accept his trust is a special gift as well. But, based on our last attempts, he knows that I do not want to hear him constantly asking when he will be released. We have agreed that if he ever asks that, he will know that any release will be at least 1 week away from when he asks. And I am real;ising that I the enjoyment I am getting, I can see that his orgasms will be become fewer and much much less regular. I have no doubt we will soon move to having months and months of denial. best wishes Lara
Hello Lara, My wife and I had a rough time during our first attempts in the chastity/cuckolding world, but after adjustment to our approach things couldn't be better. I'm glad you and your husband didn't give up. Best wishes -Sissy Cocu
I'm just wondering, how you do without while he is locked up. My wife likes to play but has a hard time going without for very long.
who says I go without - you are only limited by your imagination. I don't need to cuckold to be pleasured and satisfied sexually. Or should I say, I don't need to have sex with other people, men or women, to be sexually satisfied. In some ways, the act of being sexually satisfied and my husband being denied, even if no other people are involved, is in some ways still an act of cuckolding.
I love not being told when I will be allowed to cum. And "months and months of denial" sounds wonderful! :manga_devil: Best wishes, Tom.
Hi Lara sounds a little like hubby and I - it's so nice to have him locked up and teased, I think more women would love it if only they knew about it, so many advantages and its sexy to control his cock. I'm gradually working the lgenth of time hubby is locked up for too. Maybe we should have a competition and you're right there's definitely no need to go without sexual pleasure yourself he satisfies me whenever I want, but no cumming for him! lockeduphubby.blogspot.com
Now that's a scary thought. As with most women I know so little about, Competition is a big part of being a female. Now competing on how long to keep you man horny and without.. I would lose first.. What prized to I get, I'm afraid to find out.. But what possibilities you could come up with,, Just to keep your man in first place.. Missy Tanya
hello i have been away for some time like mnay you need a brake ...... Mistress / Gf and i are now back too see what we have been missing
I love your blog & added it to my chastity favorites! A competition would certainly bring out the best in all the relationships! :sex021:
Well a little competition between the ladies sounds like fun - nothng too serious. After all, lots of factors can come into play when deciding to release. Sometimes I just want to give my husband a little pleasure and fun as well. So it is an intensely personal thing. I'm not too keen on competitions like this generally as often the locked men come in and still find a way for their testosterone competitivism to find expression - even in something like orgasm denial (an interesting twist on the usual male thing of bragging about their sexual conquests). Anyway, just for the record - we are back to day one. We had a little time away over the weekend and I wanted to play around with my husband. But he's back locked now - and his next orgasm may be some time away.
oh my... 'just what the doctor ordered!' there are enough narratives out there that should convince those on the fence that chastity is indeed good for those very special relationships!
For a competition to work it would need verified. Which needn't be a problem. It would need to incorporate both a numbered plastic lock (which needn't be the only lock LOL) and something dated to show continuous wear. One idea I saw on a pic recently was a dated card containing also the latest World Cup rugby result, but others would do. You could both post in the gallery either here or on a similar site (e.g. chastitylifestyle) and update regularly and see who lasts longest....
I don't understand how a competition would work (sorry, I'm obviously new to all of this!) for me and boyfriend, it is intensely personal to us both, I don't understand how a competition between keyholders would remain personal. I hope I don't come across as condescending or judgemental - this is all a learning experience for me, so I would love to hear your responses! I think I need all the help I can get! ^_^ Edit: Spoke to boyfriend and he seems quite keen! And you think you know someone
I envy your husband. When I was in chastity I was a much better husband. Now I'm back to jerking off to porn, and neglecting my wife. I like your idea about adding a week to his release time if he asks when he will be released. It is also a good idea to add to his sentence if he shows you any disrespect at all. I believe all husbands should be in chastity.
Actually it could. Anonymous and verified pix posted to Gallery is one way. But there are others.....