I recently introduced my girlfriend to the wonders of the kink world. Until she met me, she was as vanilla as they come. However, after explaining chastity and orgasm denial to her, and making it clear that she wasnt the one being denied, she quickly warmed up to the idea. So much so, in fact, that I wonder what sort of "monster" I just created! lol I look forward to what the future has in store, and to sharing it with any who may enjoy conversing! Its good to be back on the site here. I hope to hear from some of you! Feel free to drop me a line.
My wife has grown to love the teasing part of chastity the most after a dubious start. She also is developing a new trigger for her orgasms, my moaning in frustration and pleasure. My orgasm has always been her trigger before but now she has a new trigger and is not feeling guilty for having an orgasm without giving me one. She also notices a difference in me after I have an orgasm. Prior to this I had orgasms every day so my behavior was consistent for the whole week. She likes the sexually frustrated me and even her girlfriends have remarked to her about how much nicer I am and how much I dote on her. I hope it works as well for you as it did for me.
It took my wife a few years to learn how to get the most from our chastity life, she never cares about giving me an orgasm. She has developed quite a kinky mind and is well matched to my own kinky way of thinking.