Since my wife and I have decided to make chastity a lifestyle, I have been thinking more about getting a piercing and a non-ball trap style device. I am considering it for 2 reasons: #1 - if its slippery enough, you can get it out of a non-pierced device and I want to remove that possibility. #2 - I would enjoy a little more comfort at night than a ball trap device can guarantee. My questions are: 1 - With a non- ball trap device, it seems that you can still get a pretty good erection. Wouldn't you be able to stimulate or stroke the lower portion of you shaft and rub one out? 2 - With activity, does the extra weight cause your penis to bounce and swing around more? I guess i envision it as the extra weight causing your flaccid cock to turn into a pendulum. I would take any other advice as well. Thanks!
I’m in a bijou and before that a Lori tube. In my experience, such devices will satisfy your two reasons: secure and more comfortable at night. I’m quite sure that I can slide out and back into most ball-trap devices so they are not secure. I have been able to defeat the tube devices in several ways: 1. Stroking my penis below the device. Solution: longer tube, less exposed skin 2. Stroking the underside of my glans. Solution: bars that prevent me touching there. 3. Stroking the sides of my penis between the open bars. Solution: more bars on the side. Most of these were in the Lori, which started as a fairly open design. Over time, more bars were added, which made it more secure and a bit heavier. But, if I wore tight, supportive underwear, it was held snugly to my body and quite comfortable. In the end, it was quite secure. Now, we mostly use the Bijou. I like it because it is light and has only small holes. The larger holes of the Lori let too much skin sag out which was both unaesthetic and a pinching risk. Bijou looks better and less pinchy. Also, it is easier to get on and off than the Lori. Because the Bijou is light, with a modest sized vibrator I can get enough stimulation to climax. Solution: keep the vibrators locked up. Couldn’t do this with the Lori, which was too heavy to transmit enough vibration. Bit of a trade off. A ball trap + PA would be more secure. I waver between wanting that and not wanting that. On balance, the PA has worked out well. It make the device reasonably secure, much more than a ball-trap for me. The Bijou is quite comfortable so I have few practical reasons to be released. I can wear it for weeks or months. Usually about then, some life event comes up which diverts us from chastity for a while.
I adore my GlansArmor2 shaft only, piercing secured device from MaleChastityNow. It’s my wife’s favorite. I’m not allowed to fondle myself whether I’m in chastity or not. So I have some mental/emotional bonds that she values. It definitely helps. I got through a three month denial in mostly just the GlansArmor2 and sometimes my ball trap Contender. 1. yes. You could. I haven’t though. I’m not sure why. But I haven’t cheated the cage. She’s tried to get me over the edge in it, and it just hasn’t happened. I did add an extra “T shaped” guard bars on the bottom which is my most sensitive spot. With a proper fit, I find the GlansArmor2 shaft only device very effective, and reduces the need to be unlocked at all. If I were ever to go permanent, this is the one. 2. Yes. I like it. I feel a bit longer and hang nicely in my cage. It doesn’t drag down too much. Mine isn’t long enough to become an actual pendulum, or hurt in any way. A lighter cage won’t add too much weight. I’ve been pierced for 5.5 years now. I recommend staying below about 68 grams or 2.4 ounces in weight. I had some BodyCircle weighted rings that were 68 grams and they were safe, but stretched the piercing. Which is what I wanted.