Firstly hi to everyone here... So this morning I gave my g/f a copy of Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders and asked her to read it and we'll talk about it all tommorow (sat)... So now the waiting begins...
Well it has been around 6 days now and my g\f has yet to talk to me about this...but saying that...we were out an about today and whilst getting something from the under the passenger seat I found the book still in the wrapping it came in...perhaps just an oversight on her part. Dave.
be patient its a big thing and takes time for some to accept why someone wants this lifestyle. you have a lifetime so dont rush things and spoil any chance.:scared0016:
Time is a good thing, when Kris mentioned the idea to me it took time for me to get used to it, I was a little freaked out to start with. I also could not do the reading thing, Kris would give me information to read and I just couldn't do it. Talking and doing is the best way. Hope things go well for you
pylofm my Wife/Mistress did not want to read the books i bought her but after a while she would let me choose a chapter in the book and have me read it to her while i gave her a massage or foot rub or while she took a bath.:scared0016:
Unless you left it for her under the seat in the car still in the wrapping I can tell you she is not interested in reading it! It didnt get there by accident. Again, you all are forgetting the communication factor. Why dont you ask her to read it, explain to her why you want her to read it, tell her what youre thinking, we dont read minds! If you do not talk to her about this you wont be getting anywhere, cause I can assure you if she threw the book under the seat unopened she is certainly not going to bring up the subject. So, speak up! Mistress Michelle :sex020:
Well it turns out that she had just placed it there and fogotten all abou it... Now this morning after a heart to heart she did tell me that over the past years everything about sex was about me and that I am somewhat lacking in the taking care of her department....which I already knew but was in my normal rut. So I have now given her the book and a 'key' and also disccusse a method/way that may enable us both to partake in our sex lives in a new and refeshing way that is benificial and fun for the both of us....so.... Well see...
So after us both clearing the air...I have now discussed this all and she continues to read when it suits her and she is now in possession of my 'chastity device' and I he vowed not to pressure her and if and when she is ready..she'll make the first move so to speak. Cheers Dave.