For KH/doms: Is it more of a turn on to get a physically intimidating (larger stature) person to submit or is size, stature physicality a non-factor? Conversely for subs: Does how physically attractive (sex appeal) a KH/dom make it more of a turn on to submit or are looks a non-factor? These questions are meant to exclude gender to include male/male and female/female as well as male/female dom/KH and male/female subs