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    I have a situation where my caged got a bladder infection. Me being nice released him early because he was uncomfortable, which he willingly accepted and enjoyed. I have reset the days and now bound4blueballs is feeling cheated because he didnt get the release he wanted the way he wanted it. He is topping from the bottom and making me feel guilty about my decision. What would other keyholders do in this situation?
     
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    *because i felt there may have been other health related underlying issues which i did not think were best to ignore M'Lady. Broken bits are of no use to anyone.
     
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    I asked for keyholder opinions, thank you
     
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    If there’s a health issue we think it’s right to release him until that’s sorted out and he’s well. What he is allowed to do while uncaged is still up to you. Once it’s sorted you make the rules again. In our relationship Ian gets release when we want it and the way we want it. He has no say in it. If he complained he would get very short shrift. To give him credit he has never complained.

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    I'd start by refocusing the conversation on his medical status. If all is well at the moment... Bring it up if/when he whines or attempts a guilt trip. "Are you feeling better? Are you well?"

    If/when he says, "yes", I'd then remind him that you allowed that release because it was in both your best interests for him to heal. Perfect opportunity to segue into your point that the form, function, and timing for his release is at your discretion for the exact same reason.

    If all is NOT well, then he should get checked out and find out a doctor's opinion on his status. Health and wellness come first, after all!

    Good luck.
     
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    My apologies M'Lady, i simply thought that extra info was pertinent.
     
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    If it's a genuine health issue then I'd only have released if medically necessary.
    But as soon as need departs lock him back up.

    Issue though seems to be he topping from bottom. This is a no-no. I'd say lock something (padlock or whatever) on his balls meanwhile. And rough them up a bit. So he does what he's told.
     
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    In the case of a medical issue I would spoil and pamper my submissive. Nothing furthers and deepens loyalty than knowing they are owned by a fair but cruel mistress. They know that even though you will punish them but when they need it you will also take care of them. I would expect my submissive to ooze gratitude as I pampered them to wellness. I would definitely allow adequate amounts of release and remove device until the medical issue is resolved.
     
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