Orgasm Ratio

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    My wife has decided that our new method of deciding my denial period will be maintaining a ratio of 50 to 1 of her orgasms vs mine. She may decide to change the ratio at a later date, but she thought 50 was a good starting point.

    My incentive is now to help her be in the mood to receive pleasure, as often as possible. She is not multi orgasmic, so it will likely take more than two months to reach 50.
     
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    With that ratio I provably be able to cum twice a year
     
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    My wife and I have discussed if something similar makes sense for us. We'll have a discussion this Sunday on if this will be how we determine it going forward. I'm kind of a fan of this method, but that ratio would take me a *long* time to achieve. And I'm not sure I'm willing to wait that long! But making it my job to get her in the mood sounds like a worthy goal regardless of being locked up or not!
     
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    I track the ratio with my Keyholder Wife, @MistressAMA, but there's no set target beyond going higher than the prior year. Two years ago, it was 33:1, last year was about 39:1, and right now, we're at 48:1.

    I have at most one more climax for the year, so whatever it is, it'll be a big bump up from last year. We both marvel at how far this has come over the years, starting from way back, prior to our FLR, where it was much the reverse. Dream come true, right?

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    That's a really cool idea! Let's hope your wife has a good libido...

    I assume PIV sex is not on the menu with a 50:1 ratio?
     
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    My situation is very different to what is explained here. My wife only likes sexual pleasure from PiV and the expectation is that she needs to have an orgasm from it. This is generally something that is anywhere from once every two weeks to twice a week. All other nights she generally just wants a massage in bed; back, neck, legs, feet, etc...

    She will generally give me a good tease and denial that goes anywhere from using one or two fingers to give me an erection to an unfinished hand job. If I am lucky she will let me finish.

    I don't know what our ratio is, but if we are talking her being fully satisfied for the night to my orgasms... 10:1 I guess?
     
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    How do you manage to still last in bed when you only come every 5 to 20 weeks? This is something I would really struggle with
     
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    Maybe I had a typo in my post, but any time we have sex I orgasm from it almost every time unless she has satisfied herself & doesn't want to keep going.
     
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    She told me I won't be getting in her pussy til I reach my goal. She really enjoys oral combined with her favorite dildo. Sometimes she likes the strap on. Either way, she gets her O without unlocking me.
     
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    Mrs Chaste prefers oral, vibrator and strap on sex full stop! "So much more reliable" she says. Even if I'm allowed to cum inside her it's after she has been pleasured! :)
     
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    My ex and I did something similar. We worked out approximately how many orgasms we'd each had in our lives to date, and I was about 2,000 ahead so we proposed at least 10:1 until we were equal, which meant that if I worked hard I'd get about one a week, sometimes more (she wasn't difficult to give an orgasm to) so it would take four years, but she might deny me for long which would speed it up, or later on I might get more.
     
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    Just the other day I calculated her ratio was just over 500:1. She said she was disappointed and wants it much higher. I can only hope she was kidding.
     
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    One week down. What about the other 51?
     
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    We do something similar. We don't have a fixed number per orgasm . . . but she will tell me how many till my next orgasm. Or on things like birthdays, anniversaries, Valentine's Day and Christmas I will write her a 'promisary note' fora certain number of orgasms for her until I'm next allowed one: whether I'm locked or not. She certainly enjoys this and feels it i romantic.
    I think my Wife / KH is probably multi-orgasmic - either that or she can make one last a l-o-n-g time. So there's really an incentive for me to get her to cum as many times as possible 'in one sitting'. She, of course, gets to kep score !
     
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    A variation on this idea is to require a certain amount of time licking Her ass in addition to giving Her orgasms (or it could be foot licking, etc if She prefers that). For example, 50 orgasms for Her plus 5 hours of ass licking for him to "earn" one orgasm.

    Or a hybrid deal where he trades 5 hours of ass licking for a ruin, or "banks" the five hours and then plus the 50 orgasms for him to earn a regular orgasm.
     
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