In 2017 in general I had about three times more orgasms than my wife. Its early in 2018 but since we started playing my wife has 6 total orgasms on 4 days (so there were 4 days I pleasured her, on of which she had 3 orgasms)...I've had 2 orgasms total. Awesome! More important she is learning why this is better for us!