Open Ended Cage/Sleeve for at Night?

If you're using a Kink3d, maybe this is an option: https://kink3d.com/apps/bundles/bundle/99539

It's obviously not physically stopping you from being naughty but it might remind you not to!

 

it migt be good as well for men that am gonna be lock up and that wud get them use to having a ring on them first before the cage gos on them.

 

I like that design a lot. It is great for use by a Mistress that wants her slave sometimes chaste and sometimes not, BUT him always mnowing that she could lock him up at any moment.

My Mistress is one of the type described above, so maybe I will show the design to her. She likes times where I am unlocked, since she enjoys PIV sex and does not want to „fiddle around“ a long time with a cage when she demands her sex.

 

Lubrication is the solution. To prevent damage to the scrotum caused by nocturnal erections you can use some kind of moisturising cream/lotion before you go to sleep. This will prevent the skin pulling and burning on the ring. There are plenty of discussions about this. Maybe give that a try before buying a new cage.

 

I would not recommend a open ended device, many years ago a member here nearly had to have his penis amputated using one, his erection came out of the end and the device turned in to a tourniquet! He ended up in hospital.

 

I had the burning from the constant pulling too. It often used to break the surface of the skin on the underside. With a larger ring this isn't a problem but then it is completely insecure and I can pull out with no effort. I knew I needed to go to the smallest ring I could handle. During the day it was absolutely fine - even normal erection attempts weren't uncomfortable. At night it was a different story. Nocturnal erections were so powerful. In the end I used plenty of moisturising lotion under my ball sack where the ring touches it. Then I just had to work through the discomfort and toughen up the skin as it did still pinch a little when the folded skin got trapped. By having a few nights wearing the cage and then a night or two off to allow healing I was able to build up to wearing the tight ring full time. I still had to lubricate but there was no discomfort. BTW, vaseline isn't the best for this. You need a proper skin moisturiser or something like coconut oil.

I hope you can find a way through.

 

May I offer some completely contradictory advice?

1.)Smaller tube, so that when your erection occurs it doesn’t tug away as far.

2.)Absolutely no lubrication. None at all. Ensure you are completely dry before sleep. Hairdryer dry.

3.) Spend a full week or more in your cage until your body understands an erecrion is futile.

 

No lube might work for some but I wear a very short cage and the ring rips my skin if I am dry. Also when I'm warmer down there and my scrotum becomes more baggy I can get folds of skin trapped. The lube allows the folds to slide and allows the skin to smooth out when erections start.

I use just generic skin moisturiser or some aqueous cream.

Just saying what works for me. As with many things you may have a different experience and need to experiment. I seem to be a lot smaller than most guys. I can easily get into a 38mm ring with room to spare so maybe that's a factor.

 

Honestly, these measurements were lost on me! Although, as I understand it: there is room in your cage. It’s just worth thinking about how much growing space you are allowing, as when it comes to surpressing erections the less the better.

That’s my logic. The idea (along with the small cage) is to prevent the erection as much as physically possible. If it can’t move from your body it will surpress it even greater. Less movement will be beneficial in preventing skin damage.
I may suggest though, and you may tell me I’m wrong… that if you’re wearing your cage every day and you’re getting skin issues, is it possible that it’s the day time that’s the problem and not the evenings? You might just want to consider a decent barrier cream while your body adjusts to the new contraption.

I think everyone experiences this when they first move to overnight wear. The number of times I’ve been curled up on the floor at 4am willing my erection to subside!? It’s just something you have to persevere through. Whether that’s constant wear for a week or gradually building it in.
In my experience, that’s not the cause of the skin irritation.

 

I think this is right, it’s trial and error and what works for you. There isn’t a right or wrong answer on this. Just options.

This is the only general concept that appears to gain the concensus. Take care of your skin.