Wife, and I have been talking about trying numbing cream. She likes deining me orgams, and enjoys getting off on my fingers and tough. but also loves cumming on the real thing especially after ive been deinied for a few days. She says its twice as hard. My problem its very hard for me not to cum while im inside her. We have talked about maybe trying numbing cream and a condom. What cream is a good choice? Any pointers, how did you feel once it was over? The good bad and ugly please.
Numbing can be a real mind fuck. Just make sure it dries before you enter her. Start with a little and work up. Too much at first and you'll feel nothing which is totally wild. I've posted about my experience with a prior partner and won't go into it other than to say that we learned to let it dry as both being numb was also a lot of fun. Although not what we were going for!
https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/ib-chaste’s-chastity-sex-toy-review.48265/ My initial review. Use it every time now. Can be pretty incredible in small amounts. Get most of the sensations but lack any ability to act upon them. Certainly frustrates.
I’ve added some oragel in the tip of a condom. Interesting to slowly use sensation as you fuck. Moves from pleasure to just some pressure and frustration when I can’t feel anything or cum.
My suggestion is to just put on a little before you think you need it. Going to bed? Put on a little before you brush your teeth. And so on. Don't inconvenience her by not having already taken care of something like this.