Hello all. I'm over a month in 24/7 and I am struggling. I'm still up 3-4 times a night and this is seriously taking a toll on my mental ability to function during the day. I'm trying to troubleshoot this and appreciate any help you all can give me. I am currently in a cherry keeper standard touch stop. I have a hard time getting into the device as there's a medium headlock on it as well. I'm ordering a standard w/o touch stop and w/o a headlock to help fit in the device better. I also have some serious irritation spot from the device. When it's on it is soo comfortable and I hardly notice it. Night time is the biggest issue and it's becoming a serious issue as I'm waking KH who is a light sleeper. It's irritating her as well. Thank you all in advance xoxo.
I believe it was around 6 months when I completely stopped waking at night. Though erections didn't go away, they just became less intense.
Not really... It was much before that when I only had to adjust bits down there. So I only got like half awake and then slept right on.
Or you wait till my age and then you need medication for help. Add blood pressure. Meds and they hardly bother you at all. You do get aroused and feel some firmness but nothing like the old days. Now if she slips me a pill I can bend steel!
As others said it does take time but a properly fitting device is important as well. Not having much (any) room to grow really helped me and then getting the correct size ring. I also lube up well with silicon lube all around the ring which also helped.
Your device might be a little small. I don't believe the night erections go away, unless you develop ED. Your body just adjust to them. It took me a few months to stop being woken up by then. I started out with a little longer cage. I've gone down a few sizes in the last year of continuous chastity and I sleep through the night no problem. I'm the mean time. Check to see if your cage fits properly. Lube. Lots of lube before bed. I've found pulling my scrotum back from the cage helps bring the erection down quicker.
A tighter fitting base ring helped me, as well as the smallest gap (between base and cage) that I could handle w/o pinching. My penis cannot push the assembly far enough forward to pinch my testicles this way. I still wake up once a night or so after months, but it is less painful (almost a pleasant reminder of my situation). I go pee and fall right back to sleep.
It took me about 6 months also for my body to adjust wearing 24 / 7 . I still wake at night , but now my body wakes me before I need to go to the bathroom . I found out that I don't grow at night when I go. If I dont. Yeah it hurts
I have been in mine for almost 4 years now, and I still get woke up at night from erections. I don't think they will ever go away.
I hate to say it, but for 24/7 wear you really need a device that's dialed in "to you". Even then, you will still have moments that hurt, they're just less frequent. Even with a custom cage, it took me quite some time before I could get the perfect gap adjustment that I could sleep through the night.
That cage seems to be hanging a long way from your body, doesn't look the right combination of ring size, gap and length. Night time erections are just a fact of life, there are a few things you can do to minimise the effects like stopping fluid intake well short of bedtime and making sure you pee before going to bed. Use a silicon lube or other similar product around the base ring to prevent / minimise chaffing. Keep arousal activities to a minimum before bed such as tease and denial or sex sessions where you remain caged, these will leave your hormones bouncing and make erections more likely.
OMG! That something I don't say often, but months takes get use to cage or never. This this a cage problem only same happen with a belt waking up and pain?
I cheat, I take a very very low dose of cyproterone acetate, you need to take a fair bit to actually chemically castrate yourself, so with what I take the only effect I can detect is elimination of nocturnal erections. Initially you take bit higher dose but once your there..... It only takes me 1/2 a pill about once a week...I wait till the morning woods just start to get firm and wake me then take another half pill and a few days later its silent till the next time, usually about 7-10 days. I am 56, so if mistress wants a rock hard cock 1/4 of a blue pill is all I need BTW, the dose for prostate cancer and reduction in sex drive is 2 tablets PER day...some people take 5 per day. I am talking 1/2 a tablet every 7-10 days.....
I've adjusted to wearing a cage at night, but i get woken up by erections whether I'm caged or not. But when i'm caged, i can't stroke it and fall back asleep.
It's been three years of wearing a cage and I still get the odd night erection. At first it happened a lot more, but now it happens once or twice a week. You have no control over it. Sometimes I have a dream that triggers it, and sometimes it's just nature, I guess...To me, It's just a reminder of who is really in control of my sex life...And it's not me...
I heard a great description of getting used to your device: it's like trying to swim out to the ocean through breaking waves. You get knocked back over and over and rolled around underwater. If you keep trying then eventually you are our beyond the surf and rising and falling gently in the swell. I would say this is fairly accurate description and has been my experience.
I just couldn't bear it mine never seemed to subside..., the only other solution I found was wearing the big belt on my avatar, which is a whole different deal. For day to day the looker 2 is far easier to wear.
I agree with the other posters, I think you need a bigger cage, that looks far to small, and it will take a little longer before your erections subside.
I just got sick of getting up and walking around...and lack of rem sleep because it was always interrupted. The solution I have now seems perfect.