My husband became a member earlier today and I decided to join also. After a two week trial adjustment period my husband is now locked in his new Jailbird device. We finally decided to take the plunge and purchase a stainless steel device. I will say that it was definitely worth every penny. My husband used to talk about the Jailbird and the price. I would cringe and hope he would look for something cheaper. I am now a believer. We formally signed our chastity contract about a month ago. We are still sort of going through an adjustment phase but for the most part everything is going great. For several years he has wanted to be locked up but I didn't realize just how serious he was. Now I do and I am just as serious that he will remain in chastity and denied. Purchasing a quality device was the turning point. I think we are both beginning to realize that this is a new way of life. I definitely don't want to go back to the old ways, not that it was bad. My husband has been much more focused on pleasing me and he seems calmer and more relaxed. The last few weeks have been very eye opening. Why didn't I do this sooner! Everything I have read about male chastity seems to be true. For some reason being locked up changes a man. My husband was always loving and attentive but now he brings me breakfast in bed and opens car doors for me. What? Yes! There is no way in hell I would want him to stop wearing his device. He asked for it and I am finally on board. Not wearing it is not even an option for him now. Be careful what you wish for cause you just might get it! I look forward to meeting and learning new things from all of you.
Congratulations and Welcome to Chastity Mansion. Like your husband I too am in a Mature metal jailbird.
Indeed welcome to CM enjoy as I am sure we will enjoy reading you future posts and photos . . Xx Wendy
Welcome.-) My wife embraced the lifestyle for the very same reasons as yours;-) And now : No way in hell turning back LOL! She joined CM like 7 month ago, and likes it here. Look for @DREWife Hope you will have lots of fun an inspiration in here. XX BlueEyes
My wife has similar thoughts as yours except that she's far more serious about me staying locked permanently yes. Chastity has changed our life for better!