Hello to A/all of Y/you. in an attempt to NOT be a lurker, and since i just joined, i figured i might as well start at the beginning. the name is k, and i've beeninto female-led relationships for a loooooong time. (yes, i'm 25, but i've been interested since i was 8). my main fetish was smothering/facesitting and it soon led me to chastity. so here i am-i just ordered the birdlocked (after MUCH consideration) and am now in search of a KH around me (first thing first-no device, no need for a KH). that's pretty much where i'm at. should be an interesting journey to say the least. Cheers!
Hello k and :welcome: to the Mansion. I hope you enjoy your stay here, we're a friendly, chatty bunch.
Has the Mansion any listings for Distance Keyholders? i have run across a number of Professional Dommes who will charge for such a service, but i would imagine a member here might be a good bet for "no toes."
agreed i'd imagine my next step would be to post on the 'lost and found' forum to jump right in-ha ha! i was looking at distance Ket Holders not too long ago, but i noticed that with many of them, they just "hold the key for a specified amount of time". i prefer interaction-be it online or in person-to keep the *need* strong. ~k
Personally, distance does not work for me. i have always felt that, in my case, chastity should be combined with teasing, with the torment of regularly seeing the Key hanging between the breasts of one's Keyholder as She tries to encourage a painful erection. Others work well with distance, either occasionally visiting one's Keyholder for occasional release or by being sent a key, either at stated intervals or according to Her whim. With the latter, enforcement is pretty absolute. With the former, it can be --but just as often becomes central to a Female-Led Relationship.