Starting the plunge into chastity play. Bought a Dicklock. Made the quick discovery that I am way bigger then the large size. Should have known as I am a big guy that gets custom shoes and wears knit fingerless gloves. So then I got the So then I got the Birdlock Maxi. Well I got it on. My boys can take a lot and they did to get it on. But it did not stay on. In addition to being large I also have some serious health issues. One is to much adrenalin. The adrenalin causes the boys to pull up real bad. I also use ED meds so after a tease and denial play time my size does not go down real fast. So I need some room to get the tube on plus being large. Not sure about the ring size thing while it is hard to get on a smaller one would still feel comfortable if I could get it on. I am not a candidate for a belt. I did like the idea of the soft material for safety removal in an emergency. (Health problems and ER rooms) but if things worked I am fine with a metal cage. although I am allergic to the nickel in stainless steel so that would be a concern maybe. But as size is an issue I probably need a metal cage. So what could I do for the next step to discover a workable cage?