Hi there, well I finally got myself locked up. I put it on CB 6000s stainless steel overnight and went to work. I work on a very physically demanding building site that requires lots of walking over difficult surfaces and climbing, this provided no problems with wearing. So, I went home showered and surprised my wife with my new jewelry. After a nice conversation she said she is cool about being my keyholder, she pulled out two playing cards ( 6 & 7) and now I'm locked in for thirteen more days unless she takes a fancy to take me to bed. Love the look and feel of the device and how warm it gets.
Welcome to the CM. It went that easy for your wife? Was it your first conversation about male chastity of were there much more before this episode?
did it again: " of " should be " or ", then you get what it should have been like: It went that easy for your wife? Was it your first conversation about male chastity or were there much more before this episode?
I had mentioned it before once. Due to illness our sex life had been frustrating and having me locked up gives her space on her recovery and allows my new frustration to be a form of sex. she loves the look of it also which helps.
steelwaiting, is this your first time in chastity then? whee, if so you are in for a wild ride... watch out for day 14 or so...
Yes this is my first time and I have to say that my wife and I are finding it quite liberating. It is great to be close on the couch without the need for sex, even if it is a bit ball busting at times.
Welcome to the Mansion! I hope the illness that's making your sex life frustrating gets better and goes away. In the mean time, I love the idea of using chastity to improve your cuddle time. Best luck to you both!
Steel waiting congradulations on being locked I hope it's a smooth ride physically as it always takes me time to get used to a cage. I must agree that being locked with no hope of release for the night at least makes me much more focussed on Miss' s pleasure and typically this is a very vanilla cuddle. Sometimes this escalates and I get to pleasure Miss which I love but as actual sex is off the table we can find positions where her bad back and legs are not such an issue. I get more pleasure now out of a vanilla cuddle than ever before an with me locked and Miss in charge it can only escalate at her request. I hope you find that you enjoy the changes in the dynamic that chastity brings all of the best.
My wife would be very vanilla, so it is great that I can get my kink on and she can get her love and cuddles without wondering if it is all just a lead to something else. I have to admit to achey balls at the moment, worth it though.