Hi there! New member, first post. I've been experimenting with a cage for about a month now. It's quite restrictive but comfortable. I don't have a KH, as I haven't got any one I can trust with them. But I have a question- what would your recommend as a first, 'beginner' cage? I would like something snug, and not too noticeable. Thanks.
I confirm this, because it is easy to change the tubes too. In the beginning you might be aroused and it wont fit into, but it will become routine and most probably smaller sizes will become comfortable.
Thank you all for you words of encouragement. I feel I could have a long and fulfilling time as I embark on my journey of self denial. Just a quick update- I took off my cage this morning after the longest I've had it on for- only about 18 hours but baby steps!! After a clean in the shower, in which it took all of my will power not to play with myself and cum, I have to admit I feel a little lost without it on! I can't wait to fit it again later. I've also ordered a smaller cage as I feel my current one has too much room for growth in it. That also means I might be able to wear it in public (if my nerve holds!!). I just wish I could find a KH and then who knows where this can lead! Thank you for reading.
Hi welcome look on e bay for the HT V5 it's the new one only cost about £16 it's my favourite I got a size small with a 50mm ring so comfy good luck
Happy days. I'm back home and back in my cage! Honestly- I'm more relaxed and content than I've been in a long time with it on. I've missed having it on. My cock felt somehow incomplete. I'm getting my smaller cage tomorrow. I can't wait to fit it. I might post a picture with it on if I feel brave! I have another question for you all- I'm a het male. I have no interest in men. I'm not attracted to men. And yet I'm absolutely can't stop looking at chastity/ sissy porn. Any psychologists out there wish to offer an insight?
Oh, wow. I've just changed my normal cage for the smaller one I ordered. This is everything I could of imagined. Its somewhat uncomfortable without being painful. There's no way now of me getting a hard on now. I know this is all old news to you all, but to me, a very new experience. I know now why this is a popular thing, and I love it. Next stop- HT V5!
I've set my first target- there is a significant date coming up for me soon. Outside of cleaning, I'm going to keep myself locked up until then. When the day arrives, I'm going to masterbate until almost climax and give myself a ruined orgasm. Turned on just thinking about that!
Thank you for your advice. The one I've got on at the moment still has some play in it, so I'll try the small. Would you think the next one down would be OK?
We will have to find out! If I'm not, then I'll be very disappointed! I want this to succeed. Do you have any tips to help?
You are honest, that will help. Set goals to yourself and make a log about it. For how many day do you want to stay chaste? Do you want to earn/celebrate with a ruined or full orgasm? Will you swallow your cum? Write it to your log. Do you achieve your goals? Then go ahead. I f you don't acieve it, be honest, why do you miss your goals. Maybe find a way to punish or reward yourself.
Thank you for your words. I'll certainly think long about what you've said. However, you have given me an idea if I'm not strong enough to deny myself that orgasm!
Maybe you want to make some experiences. Since you don't have a KH (yet?), this forum might assist you. It is not about beeing strong, maybe it is about trying or learning. You will find support here.
Thank you. I'll certainly try to remember that. Everybody here, especially you, have been a great help and inspiration in the short time I've taken the decision to deny myself and be chaste.
Also, may I respectfully request that you grant me the privilege of allowing me to follow you, Mistress?