Hi everyone, Ive been on here for two years without joining and want introduce myself. We are forty year old couple that just had our 10 day chastity. I introduced chastity a year ago and she didn’t really know what to think about it. Ten days ago put it on my cage and didn’t tell her about it for several days, but when i did she really took to it. I gave her the key and she took it on like a champ. She said seven days and teased me every day. She made me make her cum almost every night and teased how she wasnt sure when she’d let me out. My cage is very comfy so i was able to withstand it. Finally today we had sex and it was incredible. She has totally taken her roll and that is sexy as hell. We’re not into the whole femdom roll but i dont know yet what is going on in her mind.... she might start getting aggressive. Im excited to see how she feels.
Welcome officially into our community. Sounds like you've found a way to make chastity work for you and your wife. I encourage you to share, post, and even get your wife to join.
Welcome. I think women in general would all like chastity play if it is introduced to them properly and with time, and attention to detail. I tend to use a lot of information based sources, like badgirlsbible.com and Amazon ebooks to feed information at my Goddess, who also started out from ground zero, written by other women so that they can absorb the information like women do, and not how men do. I also send images and links to porn I like, but start small and with basic things so that she can decide where she falls on it, and what things she likes. Finally, open communication is the most important part, if not for you, definitely for her. Discuss things as they come up, explain how and why you like them, and where it all comes from. Persuade the process, rather than pushing it through and she will be all in soon enough. Good luck!
Thank you everyone for the warm greetings! Might be a while to get wife on here but things are going well!
I was the same way! I made my first device from PVC and when I was happy with the design I locked it on and showed her! Up to that point she had no idea what I was interested in. But she took to it like a duck to water as I say! 25+ yrs later we still enjoy chastity for me though it is consensual and mostly to put some excitement back into a now 47 yr marriage!!