Hi all, I'm seriously thinking about getting a chastity device to lock my dick up. I'm doing this as I'm addicted to internet porn and masturbating to a point that it is seriously affecting my life to a point where all I think about is jerking off. Everytime I look for different porn femdom, weird and different fetishes to jerk off to just to get off. I even went to see hookers and then I wouldn't even have sex with them just masturbate in front of them while they humiliate and degrade me. I have joined NoFap forums support groups etc and have tried so many things to which I just relapsing. I'm now thinking of trying chastity with a timing device or where I can put the keys where I can only be let out after a period of time. So I guess I'm seeing if anyone else has gone through anything similar and can offer any advice, suggestions or helpful comments I can help deal with my addictions. Thanks in advance.
A chastity device is not a cure for anything. The reason you are thinking about it is not the reason most seem to lockup.
Not sure if what you envisage will have the desired effect. But only one way to find out. If you've no KH invest in a kitchensafe (ksafe). This will enable the keys to be made inaccessible for any period up to 10 days, more if you remove the batteries!
Just be aware there’s more to it than just locking your dick up and throwing away the key. There’s a whole spectrum of thoughts and feelings that you may go through you when you first lock up, and I can all but guarantee that you won’t be having fewer sexual thoughts/fantasies/obsessive behaviors. In fact probably quite the opposite. Then there’s the comfort factor. Once the initial excitement wears off and you start trying to go about your day, you’ll discover this for yourself. I doubt that anyone wearing even an ideally fitted device would claim it’s one hundred percent comfortable all the time, and it’s an extremely lucky guy whose first device fits properly. It’s also relatively rare not to be able to find a way to eventually orgasm while locked, at least in a ball trap device. I don’t mean for any of this to discourage you. In fact I think that more men considering chastity as a life option is a great thing. But thinking it’s a magic cure for a porn addiction is naive (in my opinion) and if you click the lock shut expecting that, you may be disappointed. The good news is that there are a lot of inexpensive devices available for you to try, so you can do some experimentation even on a somewhat limited budget, and you’ll find many friendly and helpful people here for advice on any aspect of being locked, so you’ve definitely come to the right place. In any case, welcome to the Mansion!