Hello all, as the title says I am new to this site, but not to chastity itself. Early in 09 I had purchased a cb6000 in the hopes of getting my wife to begin a female led relationship. That did not go over so well as we where having other intimacy issues at that time. I have always been the most kinky in our relationship;I was into the BDSM scene when we meet and then I was dominant,but have always had a sub side that I was just to chicken to let show. I sold the cb6000 and have not brought up the whole FLR thing again. Time has passed and we are now getting along better, but I still have a problem with over masturbation. I feel this way,I do not think she cares how much I do it,but I know that it effects my performance on the rare occasions when we make love (more this year than last). She is more agreeable when I bring up the subject recently. So here is the thing: I have ordered the cb6000s and will have it Monday I believe. I plan to wear it stealthily and see how long I can build up to before bringing up sex. I think if it was up to her we would only make love a couple times a year anyway. Sorry for the long post just wanted people to have a good grasp of where I am at. I am i n the Denver area would be interested in chatting from others in Colorado.