Hi all, I'm new to the forum and finding my way around. I was looking for sticky posts for things like a knowledge base, general chastity FAQ's etc. I don't seem to be able to find such thing? I have some specific questions: 1. What is the best lube? Or what are the different types of lube good for? Is there a consensus or accepted wisdom beyond each individuals anecdotal opinions? I currently use petroleum jelly (near constantly) and the only other thing I've tried is sex toy water/silicone combination lube which doesn't last. I've read about: silicone lube baby oil coconut oil I have a tight cage that is impossible to wear without lube so need the longest lasting best stuff around! 2. How do you control your scrotum being either hard and high and tight, or soft and loose? Common knowledge says it is dependent on hot or cold days, but surely it's more to do with your body temperature? I've found consistently for the last couple of weeks that up until mid afternoon daily i'm hard skinned, high and tight and in constant discomfort. After that my skin softens and chastity is much more comfortable. Are there any tricks to promoting soft skin? Many thanks in advice for any help or advice.
I have the exact same situation. I have been wearing for just over a year, and the only thing I have found is silicon lube about every 3-4 hrs. The summer months were great. But the cold fall days here lately keep me busy, but reminded of my situation to be at upmost obedience towards my wife's commands. I wish you well my friend, and maybe see some other ideas on this thread
Yes. And I always keep some lidocaine cream close by for emergency use only... It'll get me through until my nads loosen up a bit
oh wow, ok. That sounds like it could bring its own risks, with skin damage being caused without you being aware. But I get it for when you're stuck and just need some pain relief.
I don’t use any lube of any kind, wash every other day and did a 7 week continuous lock-up a few months ago
I've seen another thread on here about baby oil, and last night I tried it.. Shit just got real... This stuff is great, and it smells like my wife's boobs I've been locked in for 10 days as of now and this is the most comfort I have been.
You have my respect... I don't think I could survive 7 weeks. I would be literally asking my buds to cut this thing off for me way before that