I'm an old, but inactive, member who has just returned. I dropped out because I could not obtain my wife's buy-in to the chastity scene. However, after having read "50 Shades of Gray" she is now a lot more receptive to the fact that people should be honest with their sexuality. One of her criteria for getting me back into captivity was that she didn't want a device that created "smelly balls!" So I purchased a KTB from MaleChastityNow, the mild version. I've been locked in it continuously for 3 days now and my wife is determined to make it a permanent part of my attire. Wearing a KTB is an incredible behavior modification experience with intense "negative feedback." It's a form of cognitive dissonance to discover that stroking one's own dick now results in pain not pleasure. The nights have been a bit rough but I'm hoping that over time the conditioning will set in and sleeping will become easier.