I just wanted to share, that I've made it 24 hours without unlock. I know it seems trivial bit for me it's been a long time coming. I've gone longer but had to unlock and readjust several times. Mistress is very pleased. This is coming to fruition. Though the level of horniness seems to be rising right now. It was odd... usually she tells me to unlock for bed, last night she patted my head and said nite dear. She's never let me go to work caged but today she grabbed it and told me to have a great day. I can't wait to see what this weekend brings.
Thank you. We have been fighting with the Holy Trainer for some time but I finally figured out how to keep it comfortable. (I turn the ring a little to the right) and the oval shape fits perfect. Like I said in my prior post, she never lets me sleep in it because usually I complain about discomfort but it was so comfortable she just left me in it and then again at work. It was very odd being at work all locked up. I know she loves me and is always worried about my health and safety. I also know she wants me locked. It'll be nice to see how long she keeps me in this session.
That's the same type of cage we use. I actually just ordered a metal version but it will be awhile before it gets here. Once you get to where you can wear it for afew days in a row without much discomfort you should be about to start playing for as long as you two want without having to stop for cage issues. =D
The irony of everything is really how it started yesterday. I was working from home and was feeling quite horny. We use the trust system mostly due to not being comfy in the cage. I knew I wouldn't hold out so I lubed up and locked up. When Mistress came home I told her what happened and she took the keys. She didn't make any comments just wanted the keys. I guess I talked about the comfort quite a bit and she must have been happy. The only issue I have right now is if I get excited it hurts a little; not too much though and I shouldn't be getting excited anyways.
Lol yeah, I don't think it works that way. I'm pretty sure its universally accepted that putting a sex toy on your dick is going to make you get excited much more frequently than normal. As for it hurting. Idk how long you've been wearing the cage but it takes a while to toughen up that sensitive skin. It hurting when you get excited probably isn't a good thing though especially for overnight.
Hurting is not the right word I don't think... it is pressure on the very far sides of the ring. it's more than normal so my brain is registering it as concern but i'm not writhing in pain or anything
Congratulations on your milestone, I hope you continue to enjoy your journey, it can be so much fun as you manage to get to longer term and more involved lockdowns.
The hormones that build up to urge you to orgasm take almost two weeks so in 24 hours you have have not experienced the hormonal urge to orgsam, just the mental. We started out with t20 weeks. Someday you will look back and realize that the locking up part is the easiest part. The difficult part is orgams denial. Best way to proceed is extend your lock up time little by little each day or you will eventually end up with burning balls from chafing. It took me 3 months to be able to wear 24/7. A few more months to wear my device outside the house. Until this month I was locked up almost 5 years every day and pretty much know a few things about what works in reality versus the fantasy stuff you see or read in porn. Most end up quitting chastity after the initial excitement wears off so you either do it by baby steps or go the way of the thousands of new members who registered here last year and are no longer to be found. One more heads up. You can easily masturbate when locked up, especially after a week of orgasm denial in one of several ways. I say this because most newcomers think that what they read in porn is true and that by locking up you cannot cum. You certainly can. Just look at some of the chastity porn where guys are made to cum with vibrators or simply jerking off the cages they are locked into. My point is that you will need self control because chastity is not about being locked up. In fact I started out and am now in chastity unlocked. Most are not chaste due to their device but rather because of the promise they made to their keyholder. Find some of my old posts where I wrote about how I got my wife to become a good keyholder. Problem is that it is small process and most guys are looking to just lock up as soon as they get their cage and expect a click of the lock to make them feel like they read about and want to do all the things supposedly being in chastity makes you want to do like more housework. I do less, not more. Wife felt guilty about locking me up so she too over the few household duties I had. Go figure. Life is not like porn. In a nutshell, I used positive re-enforcement and making being a keyholder very easy by only having one rule. My wife makes all the rules and can change them without prior notice. In fact, she does not have to tell me about them either. Also do not throw too much at her at one time like many guys do. They want her to hold the keys, become a dominatrix, treat them like a sex slave, etc.. They start talking about cuckolding, D/s or anything else that is larger than chastity and are surprised when their wives say no. Just start off with tease and denial without a device so that you wife is not freaked out and can see how skipping one or two of your orgasms benefit the both of you. You get more intense orgsams and she can get great orgasms when she can focus solely on her own orgasms.
Congrats on your first 24 hours. As said, working up is the best way to get used to it. Keep in mind few just put a device on and go weeks or months. When you hear that it’s usually a story someone made up. FYI, I’m on day four. I’m just returning and I’ve gone as long as 30days but a long time ago. So I’m trying to figure out how long I need and how much discomfort is ok. So just know it’s not a race. So what’s right for you so you can be safe and ignore the fantasy crap. If you build up you’ll be ahead in the long run.
Congratulations on your 24 hour milestone. I am sure that you will continue to extend your time to far longer. Keep on working on it, and let us know about your progress so we can celebrate with you!