Hello all, I am fairly new to this site and was introduced to male chastity almost three years ago and have been hooked ever since. Before then I was always a daily masturbator and orgasmed every day. To be celibate was a major change in my life. I realized how self centered I was with my wants, needs and desires after agreeing to enforced chastity. In the beginning it was difficult which improved my conduct and to be devoted to the needs and pleasures of someone else. The change discovered my submissive side which I didn’t know I had and chastity deeply drove my submission which I now love. Chastity has fit very well with me being a long time nudist/exhibitionist and full body shaver as they all seem to me to mesh with my thoughts of being a male submissive. During my time of being “locked” I realized I realized that I love being horny or aroused much more than I enjoy the orgasm. Plus, I now dislike the refractory phase after orgasm. I have been immersed in various kinks I love of BDSM, but nothing as ever been as powerful as chastity. Male chastity is now part of my personal philosophy and I am now considering very long term orgasm denial.
Hi boyfox and welcome to the site. Isn't it amazing how chastity can change ones outlook in the world around you.
Welcome. I agree to xcitedsissy. Being locked up draws my attention away from my own desires to those of my dear Lady. Making Her happy rewards me with a happiness of a very special kind.
xcitedsissy and Chris with PA, thank you for your kind words and support. I've been locked up over a year with no orgasm and I'm so happy about that and how I able focus on being a better person and make others happy.
Welcome boyfox. You and I seem to have traveled a similar path and reached the same conclusion, which is rather than masturbate daily (or multiple times a day), our lives are better suited to no orgasms whatsoever. Like you, male chastity has become just a normal part of my physical person, like my eyes or fingers. If there is anything I can do to help support you on your journey, lmk.