New Contract

Hello all.
Let me give some background: my wife and I have been playing around with male chastity for six months, with me wearing a CB6000S It has been quite good fun for most of the time (except when life throws the odd curveball your way and upsets all of your carefully laid plans). Things became a bit more serious recentlywhen she ordered me a Mature Metal Watchful Mistress for my Christmas present. This was on the proviso that I 'take things more seriously' which was a reference to both of us being a bit slack over the Festive Season (not wearing the CB6000S, her not enforcing its use).
For the last two weeks the ante has definitely been upped! Tease and Denial are a regular thing during our morning rituals and the CB6000S has been kept on. There has been more than the whiff of FemDom about the relationship dynamic as well, something that a) turns me on and B) I want to encourage.
In light of all of this, I thought it would be interesting to put together a contract for behaviour. This goes beyond a chastity contract in that there are FemDom overtones.
I would appreciate any comments.
By the way, I am going to have to post in parts as there is an upper limit to how many characters you can post at any one time.
Cheers,
b2ounce.

Contract
1. This contract has been created to provide the guidance and framework for Male Chastity as practised between the Wife and Husband. It is not exhaustive by any means and is intended to be a living document to which both persons can contribute at any time. It sets out the expectations of behaviour, roles as they currently stand and mechanism for discussions between both persons.
2. Background
a. This contract has been drawn up by the Husband as an expression of love and trust. He is granting the Wife complete control over his orgasms and offering this freely to the Wife, trusting Her to manage the Husband’s sexual needs. It is expected that the Wife should enjoy this and demonstrably luxuriate in the fact that Her sexual requirements are an overriding priority for the Husband. In short, the Husband is willingly surrendering sexually to his Wife.
b. The position of authority that the Wife is placed in by the Husband should be regarded as a loving gift from the Husband to the Wife.
c. The acceptance of said gift is highly valued by the Husband and should be demonstrated as so.
3. Persons, roles & items involved
a. The Wife, henceforth referred to as the Mistress, who is also the sole Keyholder for the Chastity Device;
b. The Husband, the spouse of the Mistress;
c. The Chastity Device, worn by the Husband so as to encase the husband’s genitalia, thereby preventing manual stimulation by the Husband. This item can be the CB-6000S or the Watchful Mistress or any other Chastity Device acquired by the Mistress or Husband subsequent to the signing of this contract. Choice of the Chastity Device to be worn is at the sole discretion of the Mistress and the Husband may not dispute this. The Chastity Device shall be locked when worn by the Husband. Locking may be from a number of methods chosen at the Discretion of the Mistresses.
d. The Mistress’ Property, also referred to as the Property; the Husband’s genitalia. Signing of this contract by the Husband automatically confers ownership of the Property to the Mistress.
4. Definitions
a. Male Chastity; the abstention of sexual climax for the male, normally enforced by the wearing of the Chastity Device.
b. Keyholder; the person in possession of the Key to the lock on the Chastity Device. This will normally be the Mistress.
c. Denial; the withholding of Sexual Release from the Husband. Sexual release may not be denied to the Mistress for any reason.
d. Denial Period; the duration between potential Sexual Releases of the Husband, a period set by the Mistress. The determination of this period can be any means necessary, including by games of chance, as chosen by the Mistress. The Mistress’ decision in this is final and will be accepted by the Husband. The period can also be extended by the Mistress as she sees fit.
e. Release; removal of the Chastity Device.
f. Sexual Release; orgasm for the Husband, which may be ruined or not depending on the wishes of the Mistress; or orgasm for the Mistress;
g. Milking; the release of semen etc from the Husband by way of manipulation of the prostate gland either manually or by use of an instrument or a sex toy of the Mistress’ choosing.
h. Tease and Denial; the sexual teasing and arousal of the Husband by the Mistress without result of Sexual Release for the Husband.
i. Punishments; penalties enforced by the Mistress in the event of any breaking of any term of the contract by the Husband.
5. Duration and revisions of the contract
a. The contract duration is in perpetuity or until either party decides the contract can be broken. This may be done unilaterally without recourse, however it is expected that the reason for breaking the contract will be explained.
b. The contract can be revised at any time after discussion between both parties. Either party can instigate this process.
6. Denial Period
a. The Denial Period is set by the Mistress. The methodology of setting the duration of the period is at the discretion of the Mistress.
b. The Husband may request reductions or increases to the period. The Mistress may choose whether or not to accept these requests.
c. Once the period of denial has been finalised by the Mistress, then the Husband should be informed.
d. No period should be less than 10 days except in special circumstances.
e. As and when the Mistress feels it is appropriate She may grant the Husband leave to not wear a Chastity Device for an extended period of Release. This period would normally last for a couple of days. During this period the Husband may enjoy as many Sexual Releases as he may desire. This may or may not be with Mistress’ involvement. At the conclusion of these generous Release periods the Husband will return to a state of Male Chastity; the Mistress’ Property will be placed inside a Male Chastity Device.
f. Under normal circumstances the Mistress will inform the Husband of the duration of the Release period, however She reserves the right to end the period as and when She sees fit.

7. Behaviours
a. Hygiene
i. The Husband is responsible for daily cleaning of the Chastity Device in use and the Mistress’ Property. This may need to be done without Release from the Chastity Device.
ii. Husband will notify the Mistress immediately regarding any concerns over the effectiveness or cleanliness of the Chastity Device.
iii. The Mistress will permit at least weekly Release from the Chastity Device for inspection and cleaning of Her Property and the Chastity Device in use. During this procedure the Mistress may choose request that the Husband shaves the Mistress’ Property. This may be supervised by the Mistress or even carried out by Her. The Mistress may choose to restrain the Husband during these cleans or inspections.
iv. The Husband agrees that the Chastity Device will be replaced after removal as soon as is reasonably practicable and will assist in this as Mistress sees fit. In the event of sexual arousal of the Husband and resultant tumescence of the Mistress’ Property, thereby preventing enclosure of Her Property by the Chastity Device, then the Mistress may utilise methods to reduce tumescence as She so wishes.
b. Keys
i. The Keys can be a physical Key, a code or the permission to remove a breakable tag all resulting in the release of the Chastity Device.
ii. The Keys are to be held by the Mistress at all times.
iii. In the event of a physical Key being in use, this should be worn or held on a chain by the Mistress about Her person. In the privacy of the home this would normally be about the Mistress’ neck.
iv. Emergency access to the Key is at the Mistress’ discretion.
c. Chastity Device
i. This should be worn at all times so as to prevent the Husband from manually stimulating the Mistress’ Property without Her permission.
ii. The Husband may remove the Chastity Device, with the permission of the Mistress when;
1. Going to the gym, rugby training or playing rugby.
2. Visiting a medical practitioner or similar.
In these circumstances, permission from the Mistress would not necessarily be needed by the Husband, but should be sought as an indication of the high esteem in which She should be held.
d. Sexual release for the Husband
i. This will be at the sole discretion of the Mistress. Any Sexual Release for the Husband that is not expressly authorised by the Mistress will result in punishment of the Husband by the Mistress.
ii. The Mistress shall determine the time and manner of the Husband’s Sexual Release and may choose to abandon an attempt at any time up to the point of the Sexual Release being sought.
iii. The Husband should warn the Mistress if Sexual Release is imminent during a Tease and Denial session especially if permission for Sexual Release has not been given by the Mistress.
e. Sexual release for the Mistress
i. This will be at a time and place chosen at the sole discretion of the Mistress.
ii. There is a duty on the Husband to ensure that Mistress achieves Sexual Release at least daily, if she so wishes. If he is unable to do this then he should make arrangements for it to happen.
iii. The Mistress may choose the Husband to assist Her in Sexual Release, but is free to use other methods. Typically, if the husband is present he will be expected to assist the Mistress in achieving Sexual Release with enthusiasm.
f. Reinforcing
i. The Husband will thank the Mistress on a daily basis for being his Mistress and Keyholder. The Mistress may ritualise this process e.g. insisting that the Husband does this on his knees etc.
ii. The Husband will refer to the Mistress as ‘Mistress’ or any other term that the Mistress should desire.
iii. The Mistress may refer to the Husband as She chooses.
iv. The Mistress may choose to subject the Husband to as much teasing as possible in order to reinforce his dependence on her for Sexual Release. This may include using such methods as:
1. Tease and Denial sessions.
2. Dressing provocatively, whether in private or public.
3. Verbal teasing and stimulation.
4. Viewing of pornography, whether together of when the Husband is separated from the Mistress. The Mistress may choose the pornography to be viewed.
iii. Both parties are expected to maintain their own health.

h. Appearance
i. It is the duty of the Husband to look good for his Mistress’ aesthetic pleasure. To this end he will maintain an appearance that is pleasing to his Mistress. To this end, his duties will be to:
1. Be pleasant smelling and have minty, fresh breath.
2. Maintain trimmed pubic hair around Mistress’ Property, specifically the scrotum and penis.
3. Wear smart clothing in public when accompanying Mistress.
4. Maintain a clean shaven face when in situations where intimacy between the Mistress and Husband may occur. The Mistress may request that the Husband shaves at any time.
ii. The Mistress should understand the need to maintain appearances;
1. Visual stimulation is very important in reinforcing the benefits of this contract to the Husband. To this end the Mistress should consider wearing sexually provocative clothing around the Husband but not to the detriment of her standing at her place of work or in the community.
8. Sex
a. There is no obligation on the Mistress to grant Sexual Release even if She has said that She will. A decision to grant Sexual Release for the Husband may be revoked at any time by the Mistress up to the point of Sexual Release.
b. The Husband may not ask for Sexual Release, unless told to do so; it may please the Mistress for the Husband to beg.
c. The Mistress is the sole owner of Her Property and may treat it in any manner She sees fit during Tease and Denial or Sexual Release.
d. The Mistress may perform any sexual act, be it on the Husband or on herself, by any method She sees fit.
e. The Mistress may order the Husband to perform any sexual act, be it on the Mistress or on himself, by any method She sees fit.
f. The Husband acknowledges and agrees that the Mistress has certain sexual needs that may need to be fulfilled and such releases for the Mistress do not constitute a release for Husband.
g. The Husband agrees to satisfy the Mistress by whatever means She deems necessary for Her own sexual gratification.
h. Husband agrees that Sexual Releases may be accompanied by being restrained as determined by the Mistress. Husband agrees that the Mistress may release the Husband for the means of sexual play but that no orgasm is permitted until Mistress permits one.
i. The Husband agrees to use any sexual aids such as (but not limited to) vibrators, strap-ons, dildos, and other aids to satisfy Mistress.
j. Husband agrees that Mistress may use devices mentioned above in addition to other restraints on Husband and Husband will have no say in objecting to such devices. (Although begging up to a point will be allowed, once Husband is told by Mistress to stop, the expectation is compliance. Failure will result in punishment both immediate and future.)
9. Rights, Privileges and Understandings
a. All lingerie for the Mistress will be bought by the Husband upon Her request, which will be met with cheerful acceptance by the Husband. The request can be as specific as the Mistress decides. The Husband may purchase lingerie for the Mistress as a gift at any time.
b. All sexual toys and equipment for the Mistress or Husband will be bought by the Husband upon Her request, which will be met with cheerful acceptance by the Husband. The Husband may purchase toys and equipment for the Mistress as a gift at any time.
c. Any purchase of sexual toys or equipment by the Husband for his own use, if not requested by the Mistress, should be authorised by the Mistress. This authorisation should be preceded by the Husband offering a full justification and explanation of his need for the toy. Permission will be granted by the Mistress solely at Her discretion.
d. Husband agrees and understands that Mistress may use various methods to tease and torment Husband at any time. Further more, Husband understands that he has no say in such teasing and that Mistress may continue or stop at will.
e. Mistress understands that She is free to receive any form of sexual gratification needed from the Husband or other sources during Denial Periods.
f. Husband is aware that rewards up to and including Sexual Release are given for good behavior including but not limited to pampering, dinner dates, gifts, massages, and other ideas Husband comes up with.
g. Both parties agree that modifications to this agreement may be needed during the period of this agreement and that such modifications can be made as long as both parties are in agreement.

10. Privacy
a. Both parties agree that every day life decisions such as household finances and other marital decisions outside the bedroom will have no effect on terms of this agreement, and that such decisions made can have no impact on the terms of this agreement.
b. This contract is between the Mistress and Husband. Release of knowledge of the existence of the contract, whole or in part, is wholly forbidden.
c. The behaviours dictated by this contract are to be the standard when the Mistress and Husband are in a private area e.g. at home. There will need to be a degree of judgement as to what is acceptable outside of this area.
11. Typical Punishments
a. Withholding of Sexual Release, period to be determined by the Mistress
b. Corporal punishments e.g. whipping, flogging, nipple twisting etc
c. Withholding of Tease and Denial.
d. Sexual punishment e.g. wearing CBT items e.g. Humbler, ball stretcher, Kali’s Teeth, Points of Intrigue, Watchful Mistress spike (Note: These are also sexual acts and, as such, the Mistress may instigate these at any time for her own pleasure).
e. Humiliation e.g. sitting on the floor, not the sofa, when watching TV with Mistress, verbal humiliation.
f. Any other punishment Mistress may feel is appropriate.

12. Specific Punishments
a. Both parties agree that deviation from contract will result in either cancellation of contract or punishments to correct errant behavior.
b. Breach of contract by Mistress will constitute a cancellation of contract.
c. Cancellation of contract will result in immediate release of Husband from device.
d. Breach of contract by Husband will be handled at the discretion of the Mistress as outlined below.
e. Unauthorized removal of device will result in a ten-day period of lock up and denial for Husband. Absolutely no Sexual Releases or Tease and Denial sessions will be allowed for Husband during this penalty period.
f. Unauthorized removal of device that includes a Sexual Release will result in a fifteen day period of lock up and denial for Husband. Again, absolutely no Sexual Releases or Tease and Denial sessions will be allowed for Husband during this penalty period. Additional punishment may be added as determined by Mistress.
g. Husband agrees that additional restraining, flogging, private humiliation, servitude, and any other means of punishment may be administered by Mistress to correct or punish infractions from contract.
h. Husband agrees that failure to accept terms of punishment for infractions is means for immediate termination of this agreement and that such refusal could lead to other detrimental behaviour on part of Mistress.
13. Safe words
a. Yellow means stop.
b. On cessation with reason for stopping may be discussed. The Mistress is the sole arbiter as to whether or not the decision to stop is justified and may mete out any punishment She sees fit if the cessation was not justified.
14. Signatures ​

 

Many thanks for your response, Mistress Watchful.

The contract is due to be signed this weekend, although we're already practising elements of it (the Chastity Cage is on, I'm attending the gym classes etc, lingerie is being bought).

The wife has already checked it over and muttered something about loopholes, so there may be one or twa minor changes. I will post details about these as necessary.

I'm looking forward to the next few months as we see how this beds in.

 

Well, the contract got signed this weekend and after eleven days or so of working to it I got my Sexual Release this morning! Woohoo!
I'm back in lock up now; my next scheduled orgasm wont be until 26th January at the earliest, assuming Mistress feels I warrant it.