Hello all I am new to this scene. I have started chastity to help with my masturbation problem. I have yet to let the wife know that I have a device. I put it on when I get up and take it off on the way home from work. I am still getting use to it before I bring it up to her. the device i have purchased is a Rikers Chastity device and i had to do some mods to it to make it comfortable. I have posted pics in the gallery. Just trying to figure out how to bring it up to a vanilla wife.
just some words of wisdom from a fellow male in chastity. Let your wife know. Let her experiment in the beginning with you. Trust me it will be more fun and exciting. When I finally told my wife she was only upset she wasnt in on it the fun from the beginning. She felt betrayed that I would hide something from her.
Indeed there is something new around your parts. And you shouldn't be hiding things from your wife. That's never going to work out very well is it? @ineverknew is exactly right. Be honest with her about your feelings. And if she loves you then she will surely indulge you in your new passion. At least for long enough that she might seize on the potential. Welcome to the Mansion. Do let us know how you get on
@ineverknew and @Mascara^Snake I understand what you are saying. I have just received the cage this Monday. I am not wearing it because she thinks I am small we enjoy or sex very much as I already enjoy pleasing her when ever I can.
I think I am going to tell her in a letter about why I want her to be my key holder and how to me I think that it will help our marriage. That way I can take my time and word things the best.
I think that the letter idea is a good one. I am in the same boat, so to speak. I have begun drafting my letter while trying to put it to her in such a way that this is meant for her and not for me. Once she fully gets the enormity of the control that she will exercise over me, I really don't think that she'll have any problem with it.