I knew that the text was coming, I had told her that I had a doctor's appointment that morning, and I was not to the point yet where I wanted to have my doctor see me locked up in a cage. I feel like he is a friend - I am only a day older than he is, we both went to the same university, and we had also both gone through a divorce. So every time that I went in to see him we would inevitably start talking about personal things. I really didn't want to have to start out by explaining why I had my penis locked in a plastic cage this time. Luckily for me, it was her first time of doing this, so it was all new to her and she probably didn't realize she had the option to make me go in there locked. I had just got out of the shower, and checked my phone, and she had sent the text: "Hope your Dr Appt goes well. Don't forget to cage up my cock and soon as the Dr is done fondling you!" The next message read: "I know you own a pair of sexy panties, too. I want you to wear them to work today. Send me a picture when you are done" Now I have seen countless captioned chastity photos on the internet with almost that exact same message, and I have probably fantasized about that scenario almost as many times. Nothing prepared me for the feeling I had when I read that message and it was directed at me. Just take a lot of excitement, add in some dread, a little shock, and a good dose of horny anticipation, and that maybe will get you to what I felt at that moment. She had hidden the keys to my cage somewhere in my house, and this would be the first time that I would be locking it on without knowing where the keys were. I was pretty excited to do this, so as soon as I got home from the doctor's office, I wasted no time and started getting ready for her. I got the cage on, and paused just for a moment so I could enjoy the sensation of closing the lock shut. With a quick squeeze, it clicked shut, and I was now under her control. I was elated and immediately felt 20 years younger. I put on the panties, and felt that rush of naughtiness and humiliation come over me as I put my jeans on over them. I thankfully remembered before leaving that I had to send a photo, so I made sure I got my angles right and sent her proof that I had followed her instructions. With that, I packed my lunch and headed off to work. I really couldn't keep my mind off her that entire day. I took about four trips to the bathroom that day to read chastity and Femdom related books on my phone. She is a teacher, so unfortunately I didn't hear much from her throughout the day. She did check in at lunch to ask how her cock was. We usually talked during my ride home from work, and she just asked how things were going. It was not my first time wearing a cage to work. It is always a weird feeling, as I am *sure* that everyone is staring at my crotch wondering what I have on underneath it. (Even though the cage I was wearing has a pretty low profile) The particular cage that I was wearing fits me in such a way that I can use the urinals, so I also stood to pee for those few days that I was locked up. So a few weeks prior, I had gotten upset at the fact that I had not seen her all summer. Being a teacher, she gets several weeks off in the summer, and she spends almost her whole summer travelling. I didn't have a problem with that, but she didn't really make a lot of time for us in between her trips. I let her know one evening about how unhappy I was and she apologized for being gone so much. I told her that if she really wanted to make it up to me, I had some "tasks" for her to do. So I took the opportunity to get her to lock me up for the first time. I wrote up an email with instructions to lock me up, and to come up for a visit at the end of the week to be my KH. She is pretty inexperienced with kinky things, but she is also adventurous, so she agreed to play along with it. In the email, I gave her several options of things that she could do or have me do for her. So as the week went on, she had me watch porn as an assignment, kept tabs on her cock, and had me research Yoni massages so I could give her one that weekend. I cannot tell you how incredibly alive I felt that whole week. It was amazing. I felt motivated, happy, energetic... (And horny, of course) The weekend finally came around, and it was everything that I had hoped it would be. I had to cook her dinner wearing nothing but my cage, panties, and an apron. She took me out underwear shopping for her (later I told her I thought she was going to buy stuff for me). She had me do a little fashion show for her with her new purchases. Then later, I gave her a bubble bath, a full body massage (including some rimming), and finishing it up with a lot of orgasms for her. She did give me a massage also, and I ended up having an orgasm that night as well. The next day I asked her if she enjoyed it, and she said Yes. One thing that I distinctly remember her saying is that she really enjoyed being able to bask in the afterglow of an orgasm without the pressure of then making sure that someone else (me) got theirs. That really stuck with me, and it is something that I think about often, and try to take into consideration when we are making love. We have since had a few other occasions where she has locked me up, but practicalities have gotten in the way a lot, so we have not done it as much as I would have liked. However, things are changing soon (she is moving in), and I am hoping to do it more often. I am really wanting to blog my journey with this, and hope to remember to put entries in here with updates.
So my GF is currently on a 25-day trip through Europe, and I am getting ready to meet her over there for the last week of her trip. Her daughter is going to be with us, so unfortunately there won't be any good opportunities for hanky-panky while we are over there. Will still be awesome as I love going to Europe. Once we get back from the trip she and I will be moving the rest of her stuff into my house. I am pretty excited about it, although also a little nervous. I have been living as a divorced dad for the last 6 years, and I am sure there will be some adjustment to having someone else in the house all the time. I don't plan on bringing up the chastity right away since we will be going through a bit of an adjustment at first. However, I do have a 50/50ish custody schedule with my kids, and her kids are all adults now, so we should have plenty of alone time to play. (I am hoping it involves a lot of CFNM since it will be just us.) Since she was gone last week, and my kids were at their Mom's house - I took it upon myself to have some personal kinky-time and locked myself up for a few days. Because being horny inhibits my rational thought sometimes, I pulled the trigger on a new cage. I had been eyeing a MM cage, and decided that I might as well do it. I currently have a silicone cage that fits me really well, and is really secure, but it is impossible to dry the inside when I am done showering and it gets pretty rank pretty quick. I am a little bummed as the cage allows almost no access except for a few small holes, and I really like the frustration of not even being able to touch my stuff. Anyway, she does not know about the new cage, I am debating on whether I should tell her about it before it arrives or not. She should be home when it gets there, so I am trying to figure out how she would react if she opened it. I don't think it would be a negative reaction, but I am wondering if she would take the opportunity to hide the keys before I get home? On a side note - just out of curiosity - is it considered cheating if you lock yourself up when you KH is not around? She hid the keys, but I found them when I was cleaning one day. I figure that when we get back I will mention finding the key to her and the fact that I locked myself up.
So I am back from vacation, and my GF is coming up for the weekend tomorrow. My kids will be here until Saturday afternoon, so she and I will have to be good until then. I doubt my new cage will get here for another couple weeks, so I decided to buy a cheap doctor's coat and a hospital gown to do a little role play Saturday night. She has mentioned before that it turns her on, so I have been trying to think of some good stuff to say to her as my "patient". I will google some stuff here in a bit and take some notes. I just have to figure out how I am going to work in the phrase "nut allergy". I am getting a little nervous this week as she is getting closer and closer to moving in. Although I am completely enamored with her and will love having her here every day, I am just worried about the change in living situation for both of us. She and I have both been divorced and living on our own since 2012, so there will be some adjustment for both of us moving in together. I am also excited that she is interested in locking me up, but I am trying to be cautious about how I bring it up to her, as I don't want her to feel like she has to do it. I don't think it is a fantasy for her (directly at least), but she does enjoy doing sexually adventurous things. I was also going to talk to her about going to Twisted Tryst this coming September. For those of you who don't live in the Midwest of the United States, Twisted Tryst is a kinky-camping weekend at a private campground somewhere in southern Indiana. I have not been yet, but I have heard that it is a pretty good time. I had mentioned it to my GF a few months after we met, and she sounded interested in going, but things got busy for the last 2 years, and we never had the weekend free to do it. Just need to feel it out and see what she says about it this weekend. I have several fantasies in my head that would be awesome to do at TT, but I want to take it easy as this would be her first exposure to a BDSM event like this. I don't know if it would be better for her and I to just go and observe, or if we should go in more of a D/s type of mode. (It would be so erotic if she didn't let me wear anything there except my cage for the entire weekend). Either way, I would love to go there and check the place out.