Still new to the lifestyle but already hooked! I started asking my wife for short periods of denial years ago, really liked the frustration after she had come and I couldn't. Usually she let me come after a day or two, but it still was a great thrill. Two and a half month ago, we had a really hot pillow talk about how she could save al ot of time and work by denying me for a longer period. It ended with her deciding I could not come for the next 30 days! It was longer than I had expected, but of course I couldn't complain (and to be honest I loved that she didn't just say a week). After a few days I really started to feel the effect kick in and I suddenly relalized I'm married to the sexiest woman in the world! How could I have missed this before? We soon found out she liked my extreme attention a lot too, and before the month was over she made very clear she wanted this new thing to continue. Although I was a little worried about what I had started, realizing I now couldn't change my mind without disappointing her, I was in a constant state of longing and love for her and I very happy with the new state of things. During that month, she once had to give me two ruined orgasms because my prostate ached and I felt like I was constantly peeing, and an attempt at piv ended with me coming before I even got inside (I withdrew and ruined it, though). A week ago I finally got my orgasm (she actually delayed it by a week, which I loved). Afterwards, I felt kind of numb (compared to the denied state of constant excitement) and she let me know she was disappointed by my lack of affection even though I tried to keep up my attention for her and her needs. Now my excitement has luckily returned, and I'm awaiting har decision about when my next orgasm is due.
One great thing about my lovely wife is that she's both very honest and very strict when it comes to rules and promises. I know that there's no way she'll change the date just because she feels sorry for me, and that makes it so much real. Some keyholders here seem to enjoy making their men come, which could cause a conflict of interest. I asked my wife, and she made it quite clear that she was not turned on by my orgasms or ejaculations, although she though it was fair that I got to enjoy them (until now, that is). What she does like is feeling my gardin, and it's been a lot more of that lately. Consequently, she's planning to deny me as much as possible without risking my health and since she think even the ruined orgasms had a negative effect on my attention, she wants to keep them as few as possible. I'm super excited, obviously, but at the same time I'm a little worried I'm playing with fire here. I love when she gives me orders and she's very keen on doing this, easily justified by feeling my hardon as she tells me to make her breakfast while she stays in bed. I really love all this, but for the first time in more than 25 years she's totally into a kink and the longer we keep this up, the more she would miss it if we ever stopped. But I don't want it to stop, so why worry? I'm not in chastity, but I've bought a device large enough for me (ManCage 5.0), and eventually I'll try to introduce it. I doubt she'll want it on for long, though, since she loves grabbing my cock and feel it instantly grow in her hand. I'm a cuckold too, although she hasn't been with another man for years now. Perhaps I'll tell more about that later, but one thing I've discovered is that the wild excitement I feel now is very similar to the one I felt watching her fuck another man (or spending the night at his place), and quite different and more intense than the excitement I get from ordinary sex or from porn.