My introduction

Hello all,

I have been lurking here for years and finally I made my profile here. Currently due to somehow complicated situation in my personal life, I am not active in Ds/chastity but it doesn't mean I lost interest or I see my future from this perspective anyhow dark

I was introduced into chastity by my girlfriend years ago. I knew from my early teens I am somehow interested in Ds interaction and as we met in our late teens we had a lot of time explore this territory. For me it was always more about relationship, interaction and submission itself is for me more about my personality than sexual fetish only. That is why I was not keen on chastity for the first time. I remember I felt it is something "too much" but thankfully my girlfriend, her patience and her guidiance I found my way and I found how it can be deeply tied to the expression of my submission and my relationship with her. After months of first steps we introduced it into our relationship as something integral of our Ds and lately it evolved into 24/7 long termed chastity.

I've always prefered more civilian attitude to Ds againts all that leather/latex. Perhaps it has something to do with my feelings a lot of people overestimate sexual parts of dominance/submission against other parts. I am deeply convinced it is in the first place about my personality and although the sexual part is important part but definitively not the only one.
I have a lot of good friends who are more into BDSM than Ds and I don't think they are wrong. Each of us is different and it is good when world is varied.