Discussion in 'Journals and blogs' started by jdavid, Apr 11, 2010.
i like your take
I'm completely new to chastity too, and can relate to where you're coming from even though I may have different reasons for wearing a device. Make sure you bring lube for putting your Birdlocked on by the way. I'm enjoying mine, but it does cause some discomfort at times, which i'll admit, i'm into that kind of thing. This is my 2nd stint at chastity The 1st was for 5 days, now i'm going on 7 and have absolutely no idea when i'm to be released. Good Luck.
I didn't realize You we're West Coast!
Guess that shows how inattentive I can be. You know what? We take Yosemite for granted and don't ever visit unless "showing" it to visitors. I need to get up there more.
It wasn't easy.
You know the website had directions that were a little hazy, but i can tell you it was "one nut at a time". I actually slipped one out the other day (i also slipped my cock out too but that's a different story) and had a hell of a time getting it back in. You got lube right?
Keep a good attitude.
Yeah, i can definitely see how some of the "fun" is lost without a partner. Not that having one means she's going to give it as much value as you might assume. my girlfriend has barely acknowledged my efforts. She wasn't there after my first week when i went to remove it, or put it back on. I thought those would be special times. But i have faith i'm doing this for a cause, and my online Mistress gets delight out of my pain and frustration so at least She's getting a kick out of it!
The pain for me has been horrible too. The discomfort experienced during swelling in the early morning hours in really intense, the worst pan i've ever had. And chafing has been an on and off problem. Especially now that i'm riding my bike more, as well.
I have a regular birdlocked 45cm and it barely is sufficient but it seems to be the appropriate size and i don't see myself ever being able to come in it. Shit my last orgasm was the 4th or 5th and i get it off Friday the 30th. We'll see how i feel then. Keep in touch.
Thanks for the encouragement mate. You're almost there! Oh to find the woman I need. I have a talented tongue, but it is pretty hard to demonstrate that upon first meeting.
Have you explored any of the bdsm groups down there? You don't have to be all into the pain game to play. Search "munch" locally for groups. Who knows?
JDavid, consider it all good practice until you find the right woman who appreciates your gift of chastity and keeps you motivated. I cant imagine it's easy at all without a partner so good luck.
I have a mental picture of subs eating "forlornly out of a dog bowl" and it cracks me up everytime by the way.
Did I add that I have been accused of having a way with words? Case in point...
A little hyperbole never hurt anyone. The dog dish, that is a different matter...
LOL, a cunning linguist indeed.
my tongue has many powers
So I am locked~
I wouldn't let you walk this path alone Brother.
Alright jd! I'll throw a little solidarity your way. I went back in this morning. Check out my blog. And...you might want to update your status, unless i missed something.
Status changed! Thanks for pointing that out.
I spoke tonight with my long distance semi-keyholder. I didn't really give her the key, she just tells me when I can get out. We actually had a really great conversation, talking about different fantasies involving chastity, and she said "I just love that I am torturing you right now."
Okay, here is why I deleted so much. I am struggling with this right now. I do like the fetish, but it seems that it should be something introduced into a relationship once I am in one, "organically" if you will, and not something I should look for at the outset. I am really into nice girls so I have to think that talk about locking my dick up might be a little scary if engaged in too quickly. Mind you, I still have a device, and if and when I can get into it, I will occasionally put it on for a day or two. Oh to have a woman who would make that time period extend a little. I am weak and I have the key!