Hey all I'm just turned 32, neverhad any kind of s/m relationships although I've spent what seems like every day masturbating to it since I was 15. I've had a girlfriend for 2 years who although I've been able to pleasure her with my fingers and tongue, we'vee never had penetrative sex as I have zero sex drive and she does want to have sex. Over the last 4 months, I've been trying to stop masturbating to see if this was causing my complete lack of arousal, normally I break after1-3 days, the furthest I managed to go was 8 days at which point, I actually became aroused when I was kissing her recently. The following day I couldn't help myself and had to get some relief. 2 days ago, I was looking on the net when I found that over masturbating might be a possible cause which would tie in with my feelings on that 8 day stretch, doing a bit of research I found that some people use chastity to control exactly this impulse. I've been looking into what chastity device I could get (as I'm not circumcised), I was considering the CB2000 or the Twister 2 (I'm mainly looking to this one as I'm a relatively small boy) and I'm going to try to discuss it with her next week but she's as vanilla as they come. I just really hope she says yes, I'm not bothered about having sex, but she wants it and I just want to make her happy. Thanks for listening.