FINALLY, I want to put that in HUGE font, FINALLY, but I know that it is annoying. Finally I have found my chastity device. It has taken over a decade of trying and trying again. I had a Lori 18C before and it was simply too heavy and put a lot of stress on my PA. I spent a night in it, and was more comfortable than I have ever been in a new device through the night. I am a grower, and the lack of testie ring made my midnight erections annoying but not like they used to be. It is TOTALLY unnoticeable under clothes, whether I am at work, or out hunting deer with buddies, the only trick is squatting to pee, I just tell my buddies that I have the runs. The swinging pin make a huge difference for a grower, not sure how it would work with a show'er, but I almost never feel stress on the PA. Here is a verification picture I sent to ChasityLocked http://imgur.com/zjpfg I am scheduled to be out for Christmas, then I am going to try 6 weeks, then three months. I now have no excuse to be let out. I know a lot of folks have mixed opinions about Lori and her service, but she was on time, and it fit like a glove....