This site is where we come to talk about male chastity and our take on it. Discussions regarding devices, length of lock up and hints and tips for tease, denial and punishments amongst others. Occasionally there is a post about an actual relationship, a couple and their experiences in this journey. It’s not really a post that garners a lot of comments or attention because many are here when they are horny and looking for some relief or looking for the more extreme posts to feed their fantasies. This is not one of these posts, this is a heartfelt message to all the guys out there who have come past the fantasy stage and now are the man that their partner has been looking for, sometimes for a long time. To those guys who now are their ladies “partner” in word and deed, I say thank you. Thank you for realising that the more you give the more you get. Thank you for that that moment either before or after now when something rocks the foundation of your lady’s world and you are there to support her. There are not many of you out there who are actually in this place in a relationship as the sites by their very nature are visited mainly on a temporary basis. However, those of you who are in such a situation, know that it is appreciated that you are now in a position where we can tell you we are struggling and know that you will not brush it off. Why am I being so serious? My father is in the hospital recovering from a major operation. Lockit is not able to physically do anything to help me as my life revolves round work and hospital at present. His support emotionally has been a godsend and I wouldn’t be in the capable place I am right now without his help. So, gentlemen, you know who you are, I thank you for understanding that sometimes it’s way more than the physical and if you get that, you are a true gentleman. Originally posted on MJKHScotland
Thank you for this uplifting, heartfelt, and clear-eyed message. My thoughts are with you. Salutations to the Gentlemen of CM.
I'm sorry you are having to go through this and I hope your father recovers to 100% as soon as possible.
Get well wishes to your father. I totally agree that a true gentleman understand it is not just physical and never complain when real life intrudes. Remember to take care of yourself also.
The last few months have seen my Wife and I thrust into a family crisis of epic proportions. None of the crisis is directly down to anything we have done but the nature of the crisis has meant we are well and truly involved. We have found ourselves dealing with multiple solicitors, days in meetings with government officials and court rooms and the potential for family members to be affected for life by a malicious case brought against them. It has meant that between the two of us we have travelled back to England from Germany six times with another two trips this month and at least one in January. It is costing us thousands of pounds. When it all kicked off I offered Elle a break from chastity as I saw it as a potential distraction that she didn't need. She told me in no uncertain terms that the extra support I have been giving her since we started this chastity thing is helping her get through the crisis, not to mention the fun she is having with me is a welcome distraction. I want to thank you for your very moving post and also offer my wishes for a speedy recovery for your father. Also a warm clap on the back to @lockit for being there for you.
please @Mistress Jules i hopes that Your dad gets better again quick, curtsy. and @Jasmic68 i hopes that all the nasty things that been happen to you all goes away quick.