Hello: My wife and I are about to celebrate our tenth year anniversary. I am so in love with my wife I don't know what to do. Two weeks ago, on my own, I started some hypno training to be more submissive to her. I didn't let her know at first, figuring if it worked she would mention it to me. Well she noticed and I told her what I was doing. At first she felt a little conflicted about it so I stopped and returned to my old self. After a week of the normal, old me back she told me to go back to the hypno training. We are now growing in what it means for me to be submissive to her. We only try to express it when I we are all alone as we have young children, however we were dining out last Friday when a woman, a complete stranger, at the next table, out of the clear blue, told my wife that whenever I look at my wife, she could see my love for her. Next month, on our anniversary, I am considering offering her my chastity, among other really nice things. I plan to do it in a non threatening, romantic way offering her the opportunity to accept, reject or consider it later. If she accepts, I will vow to have no rights (except in the cases of emergencies or panic attacks) and she has full rights. We have a strong enough relationship that if she isn't into it, there will be no harm. I am sure she will be concerned about health issues. For example, will the CB6000 irritate my vasectomy clamps? How do I stay clean without the direct contact of a wash cloth? Etc It is ironic that thinking about this gives me an erection. And yet, I suppose this is my specific concern. I have no idea what this will be like and I am concerned that I am thinking with the very thing that I will be constraining. I don't want to mess it up or fail by not being able to live up to the expectations that I will be setting. But yet, I am driven on by a deep sense of bliss that comes whenever I think of offering the woman who has so deeply enriched my life, my core. I would love to talk with you all to get your thoughts on all aspects of this.