Hi, My Dear Wife has been locking me in a chastity device for about a year now. I love how it causes me to focus more attention on her and less on myself. We have a game where we have a box with 9 clear marbles and one white one. Every saturday I get to blindly pick a marble. If I pick the white one I get a handjob. If I pick a clear one I wait until next saturday and try again. Today I picked a white one. YAY! I do the cooking and dishes and much of the housework for my Dear Wife and kids. I found this forum on a google search of "chastity forums". It seems nice I think I will like it here.