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    Need advice from fellow keyholders/FLR queens. Do you do this full time? Do you engage with your subs a lot during the day? How much/how little? Also, what advice do you have for dealing with subs showing disrespect (mostly verbal/attitude).
     
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    Would this not be better posted in the Female forum?
    It's likely to get swamped in here!
     
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    Yes definitely. I messed up Lol. Gonna repost
     
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    We aren't 24/7.

    If he's in Chastity or under Discipline, I engage with him more on that level than I would otherwise. As an example, if he's in Chastity or under Discipline, he has to address me as "Miss Cecilia" or "Ma'am".

    he gets extra time in Chastity or extra spankings or a more humbling situation if he's disrespectful. For the last one, as an example, if he's disrespectful after I've scheduled him for a Disciplinary Session, if it was only going to be me and him, suddenly best friend is invited to watch. If I've already scheduled him and planned to invite some of the ladies, I might add sissy maid service to all of us after I've disciplined him.
     
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    We are full time FLR and chastity for the last seven years. We tend to interact more in the morning and evening. During the day we go our own ways.

    If we are together during the day, she might make a comment, a little nipple rub, or tug my cage. Not a major effort on her part, but much appreciated.

    All, curiously effective.
     
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    The brain cell responsible for such behavior was discouraged long ago.

    She has a paddle made from recycled tires that is a most effective persuader.

    And, there is THAT look.
     
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    time is the greatest gift anyone has to give. so many demands placed upon a constant 24 hours. sleep 8, work 10, personal maintenance 1. meals and chores 2. and children 2+. that leaves 1 hour for friends, tv shows and the supposed most important person(s) in your life. what ever time we can chisel out for our spouse(s) is probably no where near what he/they deserve.
    disrespect i take personally. i have failed somewhere in her training, discipline and/or consistently demanding respect and obedience. it is a problem only i can fix. in your case.... you.
     
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    One thing to keep in mind; when someone is acting out, they are also communicating. It is possible they may not be able to verbalize the problem, but an important need in their life is not being met. It sounds like it is time to check in and listen.
     
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