Issue with balls getting 'squashed' while sitting??

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    #1 NaturalNine, Sep 19, 2021
    Hi all,

    I've been a long-time lurker here on CM and the community here has always been awesome! Here's the problem I've been facing...

    I've finally (in the past couple months) located a cage that fits my profile (uncut, grower). Other than the occasional ball-escape gaffe, I've been having an issue with sitting down with my cage on. In short.. when I sit down with my legs together (like when driving), my thighs coming together eliminates the space between them - the same space my balls inhabit when I'm wearing the cage and sitting down. So this means that when I have to drive, I need to manually 'lift' my cage up so that my balls are sitting higher, not between my thighs. And I have to be careful not to 'open up' my legs!

    Needless to say this is quite inconvenient. Plus, when I'm normally walking, I have to be careful not to walk with my legs too closely together, or I'll 'squash' my balls!

    Anyone else having the same issue? I don't recall reading anything similar here on CM! Am I just fat? (I'm 5' 9'', 165 pounds). I would really prefer not to have to 'tie' my cage around my waist or something unwieldy like that.

    All comments appreciated!
     
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    #2 King Hippo, Sep 20, 2021
    They do sell underwear with pouches in the front that hold you junk in front of you. That sounds like a game changer for you…. One brand that does it is called shinesty….
     
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    #3 Queens kept, Sep 20, 2021
    Yeah, i wear jockey pouch briefs. They seem to work about as well as anything for me. i tried wearing an athletic supporter, but that held my little package too tight all the time. For me, it can be a bitch, being a chaste bitch!!
     
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    #4 King Hippo, Sep 20, 2021
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    This might be a good watch, lol.



    After watching, I will not recommend Shinesty.... lol
     
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    #5 NaturalNine, Apr 18, 2023
    Revisiting this after 1.5 years.. any new insights? Or am I the only one to experience this, uh, issue?
     
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    #6 JessMal, Apr 18, 2023
    No, definitely not the only one. I get it too in my MM Jailbird and sometimes in my BhB full belt. Pouch type underwear can help, as can pants with a little more room (relaxed cut, straight leg dress pants ,etc) but there's still a lot of trial and error. Sometimes I get in the car and think "what's the big deal, this is fine" and other times a trip to the store is miserable because things just aren't sitting right.
     
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    #7 Susanstoy91, Apr 18, 2023
    You have to be careful...Sitting, getting into your car, rolling over in bed...Just a reminder of who is in control and that your balls are not really yours anymore...lol
     
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    #8 jemima, Apr 18, 2023
    its prob doing it cos you wear trousers.
     
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    #9 Yesiwearskirts, Jun 21, 2023
    Not necessarily. I wear both shorts and skirts. I have thick thighs (self imposed body building) and there can definitely be times with zero room for the balls when sitting certain ways. Especially with a skirt to keep some level of modesty. I have to adjust. It just sorta comes with the territory.
     
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    #10 madams-sissysub, Jun 21, 2023
    I find a pair of tight briefs or thong/jock hold everything close and immobile and help prevent pinching or squashing. But when I wear a kilt madam likes me to go commando.
     
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    #11 Deleted member 103212, Jun 22, 2023
    I wear jockstraps 99% of the time. Keeps it in place and snug. I do have small balls though.
     
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    #12 Deleted member 100175, Jun 22, 2023
    I think it just goes with the territory - putting equipment around your equipment will cause inconvenience & reduced comfort.
     
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