introductoryMature Couple discovers "The Device"

Discussion in 'Introductions' started by Parley, Feb 20, 2019.

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Any other older couples with a similar story?

  1. Yes, 60 is the new 40

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  2. Yes, chasity has helped with ED

    12.5%
  3. Yes, mature wife really enjoys key holding

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  1. Parley
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    Parley Long term member

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    ** This is a 2nd attempt at making an introductory post.
    Could the administrator please delete my first attempt and the associated poll? Thanks!

    So here goes:

    Might as well come out and say it, ED was starting to impact our love life. My wonderful wife of forty years thought that my frequent masturbation might be contributing to the problem. I suspected she was right. I shared with her a well written article “He wants you to lock him up” (easy to google), and to my surprise, she was intrigued.

    Our current rules:

    I am locked during the week. She unlocks me on Sunday night. If for some reason she doesn’t want sex, I am allowed to masturbate. Monday morning, she locks me back up.

    There has been no masturbation though. When the device comes off, we are BOTH very ready for sex, and the sex is great!

    And I need little if any Viagra.

    To my delight, my wife now wears my key 24/7.
    We both wish we would have looked into male Chasity years ago!
     
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    excellent, good luck to you both
     
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    Glad a device is working for you both. I am in my forties but the device has helped stop the masturbation and it significantly improved our sex life similarly to you. We do not have a set time for sex, my wife loves it that I am always ready when she is in the mood. Before the device I usually turned her down or was not very good because I just took care of things on my own. Glad it is working so well and hopefully it brings you both closer together.
     
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    Welcome, parley. Lots of long-married couples are finding that keeping the husband chaste and keeping his hands off her property reinvigorates their love life. Good luck.
     
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    Welcome to the forum. Lots of great people here that are very supportive.
     
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    Welcome to cm
     
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    Welcome to the Mansion.
     
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    Welcome. Wife KH likes to give me Viagra while locked and watch my reaction. Especially while tending to her needs as I am kept locked
     
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    Good luck to both of you!
    My wife and dominant KH has said she wishes that she had found a virgin and kept him locked. so that he only could experience ruined orgasms and prostate milkings. Never feeling a full satisfying orgasm.
     
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    That's so good to hear! Glad things are so positive for you both!
     
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