Hello... My name is Dan. I am a 50 year old man, living a very normal life in Connecticut. I just purchased a chastity device after a few years of reading about them and watching chastity related videos. Now, I stare at it and wonder... "now what?"
Welcome! I started off solo playing only a couple of weeks ago using a home made time lock safe. I also thought about making a key inaccessible for a period, say, leaving it at work overnight. I'm very fortunate to now to have my wife hold the key, even if it doesn't feel very real!
Put it on and sit down and get comfortable. Now start exploring the Mansion. All of the questions you will have have already been answered here by someone. Congratulations on joining our World. Be patient it takes time to get a perfect fit.