Little background.... I'm a natural submissive and crave a woman's control. I've been self locking for about two weeks and looking for a woman to help me with that. Some years ago, I was 'on the market' for Domme women to snap up and formed a friendship with someone - let's call her 'Lady D'. We've known each other about 10 years now and she's agreed to hold my key for me. One key will be kept in a hard to access place...such as frozen in a bottle of water for emergencies...but she's going to hold the other for me. I get paid this Friday and am buying new locks and keys for the occasion. In return, I've agreed to crochet things for her (scarves, and blankets). She told me, "I've wanted to control you for 10 years." It wont lead to anything beyond what it is now as she's engaged to be married next year, and I'm married to someone as well (my wife has a boyfriend and doesn't care if someone else has me locked) but it's nice to take that next step. It's a little scary, though. Once that key is in the mail and on it's way to her, the device doesn't come off. I wear it to work. I wear it when I go shopping, etc. It just *stays* on. I'm really looking forward to it to be honest as this is a step I've wanted to take for a while now, I just needed a woman to help me. The whole idea of this is submission. Her rules. It's a great deal of trust to place in someone and I look forward to melting into her.
congratz just remember to keep it clean and use a little moisturizer to prevent chaffing for long term wear. It is good that you will have a key for emergencies but it might be worth investing in an electrical digital safe as they can be pretty cheap and handy.
Thank you! I'll have to look into the electrical safes, but how do I program it so I wont know the combination?
You can usually set a very long code then write down the code and post it with they key, don't keep any copies of the code.