I envy those it works out for

Good luck with that. Hopefully the weekly counselling sessions bear fruit and are not allowed to fall to the wayside when his fear about you leaving him subsides. He needs to want to change, not just be afraid of change.

 

Now, there's hope. Working it out together. All the best wishes to you both.

 

I wonder what a counselor would have to say about chastity lol, sorry may end up with a doctors note for a device.

 

I imagine they'd say that grand gestures are meaningless if you're not willing or capable of making the small ones.

Actually, this guy doesn't seem capable of making either.

 

the main thing is at least it has given you the impetus to get things moving through talking both between yourselves and a councellor, having an outlet to vent was obviously a very worthwhile option for you and i am glad if talking about it on here helped a little. I wish you both luck in finding a workable solution going forward bit if he wanes or lets things slide be assured there are always plenty of willing males out there who would help make you realize not all men think with their appendages!

 

I'm glad to hear you guys are taking the steps that you are I hope everything works out the way you want it to work out. Good luck! You always know you have a ton of support here at the mansion

 

Congratulations!! Counseling is something very important. When I went I learnt a lot about myself and it helped tremendously.... If you see it is going in the right direction and you want to get the chastity train going again put the PA on the top of the list Good luck for your next chapter with your husband!

 

Good for you for getting help. Just FYI, my wife is a psychologist and we are in therapy ourselves. I have become a big believer in Emotion Focused Therapy - https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotionally_focused_therapy. You might want to check it out as it gives couples some great insight and tools. Good luck.