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    #1 Ctenthousiast, Apr 10, 2022
    Hello all,

    to set up the atmosphere I have been locking myself for the past year.

    Only for hours never longer and only alone by my side.

    I would like to introduce to my gf of 4 year the practice but I really struggle how to tell her things…

    I also dress myself sometimes when I am home alone…

    she already know that I wear panties and thong and she really enjoy the ass these underwear make me.

    but that’s it she is not the one that go for new things in our relationship and I really don’t know how to approach the fact that I want her to lock me up and to dom me at some point…

    she is very vanilla but is very open minded and I also know that I have struggle to make the things easy…
     
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    #2 Jessica Alexander, Apr 10, 2022
    There are tons of posts like this on this site and most of the members who could help the most are tired of answering the same question. I'd recommend searching through the site.
     
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    #3 madams-sissysub, Apr 10, 2022
    Why not get her to have a browse through here if she is so open minded, it would give here a good idea what your after.
     
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    #4 Intensity, Apr 11, 2022
    I pulled this from a post I made on a similar subject a few years ago now. Anyway, here.

    “Here is an article my wife read at my request when I was introducing the idea.

    https://malechastityjournal.com/caging-your-man/

    After reading this and several discussions she agreed to give it a shot. I ordered a cheap holy trainer knock off to start. A few months in I again offered a few more articles for her to read.

    http://www.brassiered.com/tamingthecagedbeast/introduction.html

    https://www.reuniting.info/node/4865

    After reading these articles and seeing first hand the changes in me from her training, As well as the benefits for her, and us, it stuck. She become my full time key holder. My default state was locked after a few months in. we upgraded the device and have been living this life style for just over a year now.

    My wife is somewhat vanilla. Always been more kinky then her, but she most of the time indulged my fantasy. She still does, but now it's on her terms.”
     
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    #5 true42, Apr 11, 2022
    https://happy-marriage.neocities.org/
     
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