How to find a keyholder

It doesn’t work if you start a dialog with someone with an initial intent of finding a keyholder. You must first find the right person, then hope to god they’re into it, especially with women. Most want the relationship first, sex later.

If you are in the market for a keyholder, I’d advise you to instead, look for indications of sexual willingness to explore and try new things.

My wife, turns out is the biggest prude on earth but I managed to get her to embrace her keyholder nature by showing her how she can benefit from it.

Things like not having to do household chores, ensuring that I’m always frisky for her and in general, a making me a more loving and attentive lover for her.

Try a book called Male Chastity by Lucy Fairbourne. It’s a well-written guide for key holders that’s so well written that I learned a lot more than I already new.

Anyhow, start the relationship first, then steer them toward it, otherwise you’ll end up weirding people out if you start the dialogue by talking about chastity.